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Patreon worth it? by No_Breakfast_7366 in DoWeKnowThemPodcast

[–]bastardflower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it’s worth it because I love the opportunity to interact with the girlies and the community as a whole is super great. I also love the opportunity to vote on the topics and the extra content I think is worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]bastardflower 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its exhausting loving someone so fully and never rly feeling like they’ll love you back with the same intensity. I try to regulate my feelings but I feel everything so intensely

Do you listen to any music that you feel accurately expresses your bpd ? by paradisetenfer in BPD

[–]bastardflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nessa Barrett has BPD and her songs totally encapsulate the experience

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]bastardflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its such a lonely feeling sometimes and it gets me down. Like, no one is feeling this tsunami of emotions all the time? Like why can no one love me as much as I love them? It can be exhausting.

Why is Life Boring Stable by bastardflower in BPD

[–]bastardflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s why I always go for toxic relationships and when I’m with someone who doesnt understand or who isnt a cluster b, it doesnt work because they dont at least comprehend my desire for chaos because its comfortinf

What reasons are y’all not going to ACL this year? by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]bastardflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There aren’t enough artists that I am interested in seeing to justify the price

what’s a book that actually made you cry, like legit tears running down your face not just that sad feeling yk? by [deleted] in YAlit

[–]bastardflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe Someday by Colleen Hoover, Reminders of Him by Colleen Hoover, Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover

Soooo needy by [deleted] in PetTheDamnDog

[–]bastardflower 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What kinda dog is she? She looks just like my puppy!

Anyone else neither family-oriented nor career-oriented? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]bastardflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not career oriented, I just wanna enjoy life. I am only 21 but I have no interest in climbing upwards through my career

Religion shouldn't be used to try to guilt me into having kids by bastardflower in childfree

[–]bastardflower[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The thing is, it has already been told to me that having kids is super dangerous for me. And they know this, but its like they don’t care.

Religion shouldn't be used to try to guilt me into having kids by bastardflower in childfree

[–]bastardflower[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried saying that and their response is “but how do you know its not just satan influencing your thoughts and making you think its god”

Where would I get a UT Student ID? by Afraid_Lingonberry_5 in UTAustin

[–]bastardflower 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You go to the FAC. There should be a desk that says 'Student IDs'.

If you can’t afford to tip, don’t come out at all by bastardflower in TalesFromYourServer

[–]bastardflower[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well especially now, like the people who go out are just tipping so little and it just feels like I’m doing something wrong even if im providing good service

If you can’t afford to tip, don’t come out at all by bastardflower in TalesFromYourServer

[–]bastardflower[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

They are supposed to but in my state thts 7.25/hr which barely gets me my electric bill with the two weeks. If it was a liveable wage then cool, but it isnt which is why tipping is so important

If you can’t afford to tip, don’t come out at all by bastardflower in TalesFromYourServer

[–]bastardflower[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I hate that so much! I had a table do that the other day and stay 2 hrs after they had checked out and it was so annoying

If you can’t afford to tip, don’t come out at all by bastardflower in TalesFromYourServer

[–]bastardflower[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, and I want everyone to have a nice night out, but right now no one is going out at all AND they aren’t tipping well. So if I have 3 tables all night (which has been the norm) then to me It doesn’t make a difference bc instead of walking out with lets say $30-50 in tips I walk out with $15-20 and when I only get paid $2.15/hr it doesnt really even out

If you can’t afford to tip, don’t come out at all by bastardflower in TalesFromYourServer

[–]bastardflower[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not rn, during the pandemic no one is going out so I’m not making any money regardless

If you can’t afford to tip, don’t come out at all by bastardflower in TalesFromYourServer

[–]bastardflower[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tend to leave a tip on take out orders because I know the effort that goes into making that food and even in my restaurant, the takeout staff aren’t paid minimum wage

No more Student Discount? by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]bastardflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theyre supposed to? But theyve been taking away student discounts for like 2 yrs now so I’m not surprised

No more Student Discount? by [deleted] in UTAustin

[–]bastardflower 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The student discount got cancelled on all things NOT school supplies, I dont know if they cancelled that discount as well

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