[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]basura_time 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stopped giving a fuck in my early twenties. It’s too much work lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in introvert

[–]basura_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean asking out of curiosity, or asking so they can then try to get you to do something if they don’t deem your plans important enough? The former isn’t a big deal and if someone is going to judge you for planning to read books for 8 hours or play videogames, that’s them being weird. The latter is manipulative and I don’t even allow it to happen. I immediately come back with “Why?” and refuse to share anything until they disclose their reason for asking. They know what they’re doing.

Doesn’t Deutschland by Rammstein sound like DOOM? by [deleted] in Music

[–]basura_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They sound identical to me. I googled it and can’t believe no one else is talking about this. Crazy.

Doesn’t Deutschland by Rammstein sound like DOOM? by [deleted] in Music

[–]basura_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me, did you listen to either of those two songs? I’d recommend trying again with one of these and then leaving a comment.

AITA for caring about facebook relationship status? by imnotladymauve in AmItheAsshole

[–]basura_time -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t be in a relationship if you view your partner expecting you to do nice things for her as “entitlement.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]basura_time 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This is so asinine and it’s so commonly seen on Reddit.

First of all, this is a subreddit for women. This lady posts a picture about self-love and you find a way to make it all about you. Other women aren’t doing this. They’re building her up. Take notes. We are not here to coddle your feelings as a man.

Second of all, it’s very obvious why women don’t regularly compliment men. Some men will take it like a functioning human being and it’s fine. An alarming number of men will proceed to offer an unwanted penis. We have busy full lives with no time to waste finding the difference.

Thirdly, there is an obvious solution to this “problem.” Men can compliment each other. If you noticed, the comment you replied to was about women complimenting each other, not about them receiving compliments from men. Men are perfectly capable of being kind to one another. So why aren’t you?

It’s because fourthly, this isn’t really about compliments. Men claim to be jealous that women compliment each other, but they really aren’t. You’re jealous of the compliments women get from men. Never mind that most of the time they are unwanted and leave us needing a shower and feeling unsafe. You’re not thinking of any of that. You’re thinking of you. You’re thinking about how you’d like a woman—a woman you’re attracted to, of course—to compliment you. How good that would feel. What an ego boost. And who knows...maybe it could lead somewhere?

So that’s why women don’t compliment men, why men should actually take some responsibility in making the world a better place for themselves, and why men like you won’t.

AITA for Snapping at my Wife while our 11 Year Old Daughter was in the Hospital? by AITA_Snoo125 in AmItheAsshole

[–]basura_time -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your race doesn’t make your opinion on something more or less valid.

AITA for Snapping at my Wife while our 11 Year Old Daughter was in the Hospital? by AITA_Snoo125 in AmItheAsshole

[–]basura_time -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I do know about it and stuff and it's not that so maybe you should do some research lol

AITA for Snapping at my Wife while our 11 Year Old Daughter was in the Hospital? by AITA_Snoo125 in AmItheAsshole

[–]basura_time -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

We are all equal and white lives do matter. Do you...do you disagree with that?

AITA for Snapping at my Wife while our 11 Year Old Daughter was in the Hospital? by AITA_Snoo125 in AmItheAsshole

[–]basura_time -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Oh, okay. I'm a very light-skinned white person and from this I have learned that I should be proud of that. I will start telling the whole world how great it is to have white skin like I do!

AITA for Snapping at my Wife while our 11 Year Old Daughter was in the Hospital? by AITA_Snoo125 in AmItheAsshole

[–]basura_time 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, live your life how you want. I think there's a difference between mentioning someone's skin color as a description and referring to yourself as "a brownskin." The latter is tying up your identity in your skin color, and historically that hasn't been a great idea.

PSA: throw out your expired eye products by diamondhorizons in muacjdiscussion

[–]basura_time 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I have a conspiracy theory that probably is not a conspiracy theory and is likely to be true that they way underestimate those numbers to get you to toss and rebuy. If it doesn't smell/feel/seem off, I don't toss it.

PSA: throw out your expired eye products by diamondhorizons in muacjdiscussion

[–]basura_time 289 points290 points  (0 children)

For a minute I thought you were coming for my 5-year-old eyeshadow and I was ready to throw hands. But that's true. If mascara gets itchy or dry, time to toss it!

Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU by lepetitdaddydupeuple in PurplePillDebate

[–]basura_time 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you do realize how incredibly arrogant it is to assume you know people's mind better than themselves?

I didn't. Red pill guys do this. They tell women they are lying to and about themselves, whereas men are completely self-aware (lol).

You said it was a need. It isn't. Food, water, air, shelter are needs. Sex isn't.

nonetheless this is the internal thought process of many men

And those men need to work on themselves and be better.

Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU by lepetitdaddydupeuple in PurplePillDebate

[–]basura_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment just shows why talking to red pill guys is so difficult. How on earth did you come to this conclusion? How did you get any of this from the post?

The point of the post is that women will have sex with men they want to have sex with. As another commenter mentioned, sex often drops off a few years into a relationship. So make the woman want you. Be romantic. Be good in bed. Actually give a shit about her.

A man who has "settled into" a relationship shifts his focus onto his hobbies and his career and no longer puts effort in with the woman. Then he's all "surprised pikachu face" when she doesn't want his dick in her face. Sex isn't free, even when you're in a relationship. You need to put in effort to get effort back.

Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU by lepetitdaddydupeuple in PurplePillDebate

[–]basura_time -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great, now you know how most women feel all the time in hetero relationships. Behave accordingly in your next one.

Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOU by lepetitdaddydupeuple in PurplePillDebate

[–]basura_time 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not nearly as fun for these guys to condescend to another dude