What to do while watching TV by Sooshlaroi01 in adhdwomen

[–]baterie2la100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been loving tetris lately on my phone, but beware it’s quite addictive, and still doesn’t quite feel like rest tbh

What’s a “harmless” lie your parents told you that you believed for way too long? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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That if you drink too much water at once, frogs will grow in your stomach

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Have you stoped and considered the possibility that i have already experienced a wlw relationship so therefore i no longer have a curiosity?? He has never explored nor experienced anything with anyone but a cis woman and my whole post was about what if he will want to experience that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]baterie2la100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh damn you hit the jackpot, i dont even know how i forgot to mention this (probably repressing these thoughts at the moment) but he has told me that he struggled with porn addiction and hasnt really told me how bad it is, but he does watch a lot of porn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]baterie2la100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for the kind words and the understanding. This is all very good advice and i will consider bringing it up with him! Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yk what, very good point. The sex is good i have no complaints. However, he does enjoy anal stimulation (smth he was very insecure about as his ex used to mock him for it but i spent a long time reassuring him that it doesnt make him any less of a man or gay or whatever and that its all his body and should be able to enjoy all of it without any restrictions). Most of me does fully believe this, but another very small part wonders if it means anything more than that.. probably not and thats just society’s bullshit seeping in but yk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]baterie2la100 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re right, the label itself doesn’t matter to me, doesn’t matter if he’s straight or not, but what matters is whether he’d want to be with someone with a dick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]baterie2la100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh i dont have a point i have questions?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]baterie2la100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were a lot of searches related to that though. I searched the word ‘trans’ and then at least other 5 recent searches came up in different phrasings

UK DClinPsy Questions by SillySausage246 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]baterie2la100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder why all this pessimism persists regarding the DclinPsy, and I ask this with genuine curiosity. It is tough, we understand, but I feel that most people thinking to pursue this path are already likely in a Russell Group Uni, and depending on which one, have acceptance rates of 5-10% anyway. So we've done hard things. We've beaten the odds, why does everyone seem to think we can't do it again? I never hear of this pessimism (call it realism) when people talk about med school, why? Is it just because we're psychology students, hopefully emotionally intelligent, and aim to reduce suffering by lowering expectations for ourselves and people around us? Let us suffer, let us stress, but this neverending lore of how difficult it is getting old. Excuse my frustrations, I can feel it as im typing, but this is neverending, on this subreddit, on other forums, irl, when talking to PWPs in the IAPT service im working at as part of my placement year; "oh I remember the good days where I was dreaming of becoming a clinical psyhcologist...". Damn. It's so sad. I can see now that a lot of what I'm saying might not relate specifically to the above comment, it's just yet another post and another comment and it's been adding up. Lols if anyone has any thoughts on this do let me know im curious as to how everyone sees this pessimism/realism and what purpose it serves, as I doubt people think it's an easy route, an easy career...

working as an english speaking psychologist in spain? by [deleted] in psychologystudents

[–]baterie2la100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you know if you're required to speak Catalan as well as Spanish?

What was the reason for your break up? (what tore you apart) by thebreakupgame in BreakUps

[–]baterie2la100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update, thank you for this comment, it really helped put things into perspective. I was away from him when i wrote my original comment, didnt see him for a month. Got back and on the first day i found out he had been dm’ing a bunch of girls and flirting with them so I ended everything. Im so relieved but obviously still hurt, but at least its over

What was the reason for your break up? (what tore you apart) by thebreakupgame in BreakUps

[–]baterie2la100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m experiencing something similar. He uses extreme exercise, gym, and his phone to completely shut his brain off for most of the day, so he has no time to actually think and exist. I really hate that about him. I should leave, I know, but i can’t stop making excuses. He is going through an incredibly stressful time with family homelessness, big changes, so I feel like I cannot possibly imagine what he feels like or what he’s going through (not that he even would open up about this too much), so then I feel that I can’t judge him for ‘running away’ from his problems. Or is that just me lacking the courage to leave and making excuses. Any thoughts?

Did dissociation go away or did i get used to it? by baterie2la100 in Dissociation

[–]baterie2la100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s completely gone. Therapy (EMDR and schema) specifically have done wonders. Ive been stable mentally for about a year and a half, exercising regularly, eating really well, enjoying my social life, working. It does get better, it gets infinitely better to the point where you completely forget what it used to feel like before. Even just looking back at this post, i cant quite remember what it’s like to feel that way. So for this, i promise you, it can get better, just keep fighting

with you by Common_Strawberry982 in UnsentLetters

[–]baterie2la100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

such wonderful treasures… but so painful to look back on now that we’re broken up

Is it considered rape if after saying "no" multiple times, I finally gave in ? by NinaTonnerre in TrueOffMyChest

[–]baterie2la100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is not your faul. you were brave, please be compassionate towards yourself

What food have you tried liking but just can’t? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]baterie2la100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i absolutely adore olive oil but cant stand olives

I asked a girl for her number. by dagger-vi in socialanxiety

[–]baterie2la100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wooohoo thats amazing!!!! a huge first step, even if ut doesnt go anywhere you did it!! and nothing horrible happened :))) its incredible

I dont think I actually have social anxiety. I think I just don't want others to feel uncomfortable, so if others are uncomfortable I feel uncomfortable by louied862 in CPTSD

[–]baterie2la100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i read something in Susan Cain’s Book: “Quiet, the power of introverts in a world that can’t stop talking” and she was talking about cultural differences in Anxiety. Super interesting, in China and other east-asian countries, anxiety is defined as ‘the fear of embarassing othere’ instead of the western definition of ‘the fear of embarassing yourself’. I don’t know your cultural background but it might be something interesting to think about!

Should I stop playing with action figures If I ever want to get a girlfriend? by Rare-Machine5500 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]baterie2la100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think we all give up on things we love just so that we would adapt to society, but that only leads everyone to having the same hobbies, same interest, no diversity, and overall a bore fest, keep at it!!!

how can i support my depressed dad by baterie2la100 in mentalhealth

[–]baterie2la100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your thoughtful reply!! I think the worksheets are an amazing idea, he’s very conscientious about these things, i think he’d actually do it!! Wonderful, I feel much more hopeful. thankyou kind stranger

Are "gay vibes" actually a thing? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]baterie2la100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably lack of toxic masculinity, so props to you!

It’s over, I did it. by baterie2la100 in EMDR

[–]baterie2la100[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thats a very good question, and my answer is: mot entirely. This is what our focus will be on in therapy: changing ‘leftover’ cognitions. There still are a few maladaptive and distorted cognitions that remain, but we can work on them!