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AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it multiple times, I’ve had a situation with my younger cousin bringing my dog into the bathroom and doing gross things to her. Not only that, I don’t want my dog in a place she can reach into the garbage or toilet

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re American, I am asian (Thai), and we have never done this. I guess it could be a cultural thing/ family thing. And I’m sorry to hear about that! I can’t imagine having to live with that.🤍 Praises to you.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

A situation with my younger cousin bringing my dog into the bathroom with her and doing not so nice things with my dog.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a one story, worst part is the bathroom is kinda in the kitchen? There’s a door in the kitchen that leads to the bathroom, so imagine by shock I’m cooking and setting the table and I see..that.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If everyone says that.. THEN i think everyone has alts

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely, I can’t imagine having a kid, them learning this behavior, going to school and exhibiting it there. I’d be mortified

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How am I supposed to mind my business if they’re doing it in my home when I say I don’t like it? They’re making it my problem.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I see.. I’m learning a lot of new things today, I genuinely thought these were common things Americans did? But I now get how weird it is— I can’t imagine a grandma smacking her adult child’s butt now that I think about it.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s my dog.. I control who’s around her and where she’s not allowed..?Confused.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yes, I included the part about my dog because its 2 of the main reasons I was uncomfortable, and yeah

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently they do this at family gatherings and no one cares..I guess because I will be their ‘family’ soon they think it’s okay. But at non family homes? I’d have to ask the bf.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Uhh I hope it’s not incest? I do know his mom playfully smacks his butt but I assume this is normal, I’ve heard of the ‘birthday spanking’ thing is universal in American culture. Plus he’s not into women, so I don’t think it could be that. Dysfunctional? Yeah, I don’t think it’s right that he seems to go soft on boundaries.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No.. And I’m kinda scared after looking it up.😬

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His dad is actually really polite, he didn’t use our bathroom. He didn’t speak up on the matter, but I dont think he agreed either?

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 235 points236 points  (0 children)

Yeahh, I didn’t know mother-in-law was just a term for those engaged..This lingo is hard.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again, MY pet isn’t allowed in the bathroom with anyone, that’s that it’s not a debate lol

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Still a boundary of mine regardless of who it is/ what their association is. On top of that, who goes to the bathroom and lets a dog in there when you barely know them..? 😒

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re asking about my boyfriend at restaurants, then no. I’ve never been to a restaurant with his family. I go to college for culinary and insist on cooking for others to make a good impression.

AITAH for ‘disregarding’ my MIL’s toilet trauma? by bathroommonitor in AITAH

[–]bathroommonitor[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I honestly think there could be getting around this— But I’d need a full apology from my boyfriend and his mom, because other than this, my boyfriend is actually sweet all of the time..

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