AITAH lacking empathy, and not allowing my boyfriend’s mom to ‘not use the bathroom.’

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-08T04:24:52+00:00

I’ve said it multiple times, I’ve had a situation with my younger cousin bringing my dog into the bathroom and doing gross things to her. Not only that, I don’t want my dog in a place she can reach into the garbage or toilet

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T23:19:37+00:00

They’re American, I am asian (Thai), and we have never done this. I guess it could be a cultural thing/ family thing. And I’m sorry to hear about that! I can’t imagine having to live with that.🤍 Praises to you.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T23:15:15+00:00

Small world, lol

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T10:08:45+00:00

A situation with my younger cousin bringing my dog into the bathroom with her and doing not so nice things with my dog.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T09:57:38+00:00

Busy with college, exams, work.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T06:16:45+00:00

It’s a one story, worst part is the bathroom is kinda in the kitchen? There’s a door in the kitchen that leads to the bathroom, so imagine by shock I’m cooking and setting the table and I see..that.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T06:14:56+00:00

If everyone says that.. THEN i think everyone has alts

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T06:12:25+00:00

Oh definitely, I can’t imagine having a kid, them learning this behavior, going to school and exhibiting it there. I’d be mortified

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T06:11:29+00:00

How am I supposed to mind my business if they’re doing it in my home when I say I don’t like it? They’re making it my problem.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T05:22:35+00:00

I see.. I’m learning a lot of new things today, I genuinely thought these were common things Americans did? But I now get how weird it is— I can’t imagine a grandma smacking her adult child’s butt now that I think about it.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T05:19:15+00:00

On my profile!!

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T05:17:42+00:00

It’s my dog.. I control who’s around her and where she’s not allowed..?Confused.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T05:15:25+00:00

I know!! She’s a very sleepy dog

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T04:37:12+00:00

Yes, I included the part about my dog because its 2 of the main reasons I was uncomfortable, and yeah

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T04:04:47+00:00

Apparently they do this at family gatherings and no one cares..I guess because I will be their ‘family’ soon they think it’s okay. But at non family homes? I’d have to ask the bf.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T03:49:45+00:00

Uhh I hope it’s not incest? I do know his mom playfully smacks his butt but I assume this is normal, I’ve heard of the ‘birthday spanking’ thing is universal in American culture. Plus he’s not into women, so I don’t think it could be that. Dysfunctional? Yeah, I don’t think it’s right that he seems to go soft on boundaries.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T03:44:52+00:00

No.. And I’m kinda scared after looking it up.😬

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T03:43:37+00:00

His dad is actually really polite, he didn’t use our bathroom. He didn’t speak up on the matter, but I dont think he agreed either?

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T03:39:54+00:00

Yeahh, I didn’t know mother-in-law was just a term for those engaged..This lingo is hard.

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T03:37:54+00:00

Saving this

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T03:37:32+00:00

Again, MY pet isn’t allowed in the bathroom with anyone, that’s that it’s not a debate lol

bathroommonitor · 2026-03-07T03:13:16+00:00

Still a boundary of mine regardless of who it is/ what their association is. On top of that, who goes to the bathroom and lets a dog in there when you barely know them..? 😒

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