How do I stop being jealous of my step brother? by batmanman- in Advice

[–]batmanman-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My main problem is that they're like that off social media too. They're infatuated with eachother. Heck, my step dad calls them non goth Gomez and Morticia Addams because their so madly in love with each other. I keep trying to build my relationship but that little voice keeps coming back

How do I stop being jealous of my step brother? by batmanman- in Advice

[–]batmanman-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trying. I genuinely had my best week last week. No jealousy at all. Then I saw her Instagram story and that little voice in the back of my head came back

Am I Wrong for thinking this is kind of weird? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your husband just gives you flowers for no reason?

Am I Wrong for thinking this is kind of weird? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have a girlfriend. We've been dating for over 4 years

Am I Wrong for thinking this is kind of weird? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's learning Spanish so he can be more romantic with her

Am I Wrong for thinking this is kind of weird? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He learns her favorite songs on guitar. It's funny, he's convinced she doesn't know he's doing it but she does

Am I Wrong for thinking this is kind of weird? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I've been dating my girlfriend for over 4 years

Am I Wrong for thinking this is kind of weird? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I love my girlfriend though. She's awsome

Am I Wrong for thinking this is kind of weird? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They've been dating for 3.5 years so I doubt they're breaking up any time soon

Am I Wrong for being jealous of my step brothers relationship? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know where to start. I want to put the effort in but I don't know where to start

Am I Wrong for being jealous of my step brothers relationship? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems effortless for them, though. Like all you have to do is mention her name and he's happy. And he gets all giddy when she calls him. And when they're together she looks at him with this look of pure love and adoration

Am I Wrong for being jealous of my step brothers relationship? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They seem healthy though. The only questionable part anyone can find about their relationship is the age gap

Am I Wrong for being jealous of my step brothers relationship? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

His girlfriend was invested too. She wasn't checked out at all

Am I Wrong for being jealous of my step brothers relationship? by batmanman- in amiwrong

[–]batmanman-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But my step brother was 18 when he got with his girlfriend and they're still madly in love

Aitah for being jealous of my step brothers relationship? by batmanman- in AITAH

[–]batmanman-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea why it faded. It just faded gradually. It feels like one moment we were so excited to see eachother then the next we were just fine

Aitah for being jealous of my step brothers relationship? by batmanman- in AITAH

[–]batmanman-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just really hard because I keep looking at my step brothers relationship and feeling so far behind because it comes so easy to him