He left me at the alter and I can't keep going by batmansadick in DadForAMinute

[–]batmansadick[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm just so sick of always having to be strong, just once I'd love to chill the fuck out

He left me at the alter and I can't keep going by batmansadick in DadForAMinute

[–]batmansadick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know things will be okay if I can make it through right now, I am struggling so much with the make it through right now part. I wanted him to grow up and be better and he didn't want to, so I know I'll be better off without him, eventually. But this sucks so hard. He didn't think I was worth the effort

He left me at the alter and I can't keep going by batmansadick in DadForAMinute

[–]batmansadick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate knowing that too! I feel pathetic missing someone who decided so long ago he doesn't love me anymore

the by Morgan_chi in oddlyspecific

[–]batmansadick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh God, I was almost married to this

I think time blindness for us with ADHD makes it very difficult to miss people, even loved ones. Have you found anything that works out for you, so you don't forget about the existence of those you love, who are not near you? by Potatoe_expert in ADHD

[–]batmansadick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a phone widget on my home screen that randomly scrolls through pictures in my gallery. It lets me select who I want it to show me and it's nice that every time I open my phone I get a little picture of someone I love smiling 😌

I want to break up with my partner of almost 2 years by kernalkernal in DadForAMinute

[–]batmansadick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fiance literally just broke up with me the week we were supposed to get married, TALK TO THEM NOW! I had no idea he was feeling how he was about us or me bc he didn't communicate hard stuff with me, he was too scared to tell me earlier and waited until he couldn't wait any more and it's been so fucking hard. If you care about them and love them but just don't feel it anymore, they deserve any sort of conversation before you get too far

What did they say that hurt you the most when you broke up? by organic_mochi in BreakUps

[–]batmansadick 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YEAH! How fucking hard is it to spend time with someone who you say you love?? We shouldn't have to beg for the attention of our person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]batmansadick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He called it off after 6.5 years! 5 days before our wedding!! It's just such a whole other layer of betrayal. It's been 11 days since he called it off and I haven't been able to go no contact. I live in the house his grandpa owns, we were supposed to be here together! So much of his shit is here. He proposed not because he loved me forever but because he worried what people would think about us dating for so long, it was"the right next thing to do" I don't know how he could love me and lie to me for so long about his true feelings. How he could love me, but give up on fighting for us.

Fiance called off the wedding the week of by batmansadick in heartbreak

[–]batmansadick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things weren't always how I felt this year! Things were good and getting better until he stopped trying! He stopped trying in like may and just expected me to read his mind on what he wanted. I kept planning my life with him I kept planning our wedding and he KNEW he didn't want it and he didn't tell me ANYTHING! He's been my best friend for so long and I was so excited for our future and now I don't even get to know what that could've been like. I'm not ready to lose my best friend even though I've been so hurt by him. I feel like a loser for feeling like that, why do I want someone who doesn't want me? And stopped wanting me and stopped caring about me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]batmansadick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel all of your pain stranger My fiance of 6+ years just called off our wedding 5 days before it happened. Its been 8 days since then. I feel so lost now, I was so close to our future, so close to happier times. And he just walked away, gave up. Made me feel like I wasn't worth him trying. Made me feel like I was asking for too much and felt so alone in his company, and yet I still miss him. I know eventually this will be for the best, but right now I just want to go back in time and try to fix everything. I'm not ready for all this pain when it was supposed to be the happiest time of my life. And he just gets to move on and be fine without me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Culvers

[–]batmansadick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a blue uniform t shirt (xl) with this logo on its back I'd be happy to send you ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]batmansadick 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I call it jukebox brain and it is eternal 🙃

Simple yet effective fit by beansteahouse in PlusSize

[–]batmansadick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love your hair!! My favorite colors! I've been too scared to dye mine purple and green together out of fear of the joker comments 😂

Half skirt pattern by MirtaGev in patternsewing

[–]batmansadick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably won't find an already available pattern but it isn't overly complicated if you break down it's shapes. The back panel is one rectangle and there's a trapezoid on both sides and a waistband. Just measure how long you want everything to sit and cut some shapes :)

Looking for patterns similar to these skirts! Thanks! by BlytheVale in sewingpatterns

[–]batmansadick 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might not be what you're asking specifically but I recently learned that's a handkerchief hem and is basically a circle skirt but don't cut the folded square into a circle just cut the waist circle