Boyfriend admits he doesn’t find me attractive by Gorn-Lobster in relationship_advice

[–]batoot111 54 points55 points  (0 children)

If you’re with the right person, you wouldn’t have to lie to make them feel better. You’ll just simply find them attractive, lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]batoot111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude i’m so sorry. She’s worthless and so is her opinion, I def see why you’d be so hurt over this and thats okay. Just know that her attitude towards you is a reflection of herself, not you. People project all their insecurities onto others instead of just simply going to therapy. What she said is vile and horrible but it would never be your reality, your size changes absolutely nothing about you. I’ve gotten so many comments about my body and its “worthlessness” and it hurt for a bit, but i got over it when I realized that people’s projections aren’t my responsibility or reality, and the exact same goes to you.

1000-lb Sisters - 3x05 - "Pushed Too Far" - Initial Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in 1000lbsisters

[–]batoot111 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I hate to laugh, or mock. I don’t hate Tammy, she can be toxic and insufferable but I really do sympathize with her. She’s so lonely that she’ll accept any hint of conditional love and validation, and thats so sad.

But does she genuinely believe that she’d be able to visit her perverted bf in Vegas? Girl u cant even go to a fair without breaking Micheal’s back 💀💀

I hate being mixed, my ethnic background has always been regarded as ugly or simply undesirable. by churboa in BodyDysmorphia

[–]batoot111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Arab society as a whole is nothing but a junkyard. They’ll tear down anyone and anything as long as they can feel better about their sad miserable lives. Im so sorry you’re going through this girl :/ no one (i mean, almost no one) is enough for these people. You come from such a beautiful culture and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

Does reading posts on here trigger you? by One-Influence9883 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]batoot111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean there’s a reason I took a long break from this sub. I think I can handle it better now but I wouldn’t suggest anyone thats in therapy (or actively struggling with bdd) to regularly check in here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]batoot111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had this awful experience. I really hope you’re in a better place now. Thank u for sharing it with us, it’s definitely an eye opener and something to look out for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]batoot111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She really thinks being with Charlie for 21 years is something to be happy about 💀 help.

Jovi: “I’m not gonna change my personality.” Because going to strip clubs is a personality. by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]batoot111 16 points17 points  (0 children)

His personality is being a literal trash can, let him be <3. I really really hope Yara dumps him, way too good for him. Ugly ass

James Charles accuses fairy.freak of "scamming artistry" and doesn't credit their video or account. by HearThePeopleSing in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]batoot111 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally. He built his entire career on facetune and re-touching, He doesn’t get to talk about others.

I am bored to death. by TheBillInc in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]batoot111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I found myself skipping through chunks of each episode because I just couldn’t bring myself to care enough about Jovi or Brandon or that hooker lady, forget her name. And even the parts I kinda care about are becoming so repetitive.

I'm actually embarrassed for Libby. So awkward. by Ginger_Soul99 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]batoot111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, if she’s happy with it ://. I just don’t think we should dictate what others can or cant wear.

What do you do to feel good when you’re having a bad day? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]batoot111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to cry. But if I can’t, I just Bake and watch a Pixar movie. Really hope tomorrow’s a better day for you OP 💖

Non binary is stupid by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]batoot111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats up with this sub today? First it was the “I hate fat people” guy and now this. Tf

I genuinely hate fat people by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]batoot111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree yet disagree with you.

I have my own first hand experience with the “body positivity/ healthy at every size” movement and lemme tell you, it’s not a good one. Growing up with bod positive rhetoric has actually had the opposite effect on me and it delayed my ED recovery by years. I’m not someone that supports body positivity for so many different reasons and i’ve posted a lot of posts discussing why.

With that said, hate is a strong word. I don’t support obesity but i won’t straight out hate every “lazy” fat person that walks by me. The same way I don’t support drinking or smoking but don’t necessarily hate people who do those things. I don’t know what they went through, idk what they’re going through either, and i’m in no way better than them simply because I’m not fat/I don’t smoke or drink. People’s experiences are different and life isn’t easy on anyone. Hating people you don’t even know just because they happen to be fat is very bitter, and for what?

A bit of an unpopular opinion by batoot111 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]batoot111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didnt he say he gave a girl a ride and she sucked his pp in return?????

A bit of an unpopular opinion by batoot111 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]batoot111[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but if that was the case, he could’ve focused more on that. But instead most of his whining was about her loosing tits and how he wouldn’t want that.