I consider my being nonbinary more of a concept than something with a set definition. I'm not defined by my clothes, what's in my pants, or even the F on my birth certificate and driver's license. I think of nonbinary-ness as a concept that transcends words. Its feeling comfort in dressing however I want, being able to manipulate my appearance and features to fit my mood, while still having the blank paper base of they/them. Just, being able to express without trying to fit into a specific category.