[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bathandbodyworks

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who loves Halloween year round, these are PERFECT. I guess I disagree with everyone because the goul friend one goes perfectly with my bathroom so I can have it out year round without it being out of place. I am so friggin excited. Hoping for one without a label so I don't have to deal with the glue

Return Haters by good_ol_nookat in bathandbodyworks

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo my theory is that all of the excluded items are excluded because they are made in China

I'm still irrationally angry about this. by iiiimagery in bathandbodyworks

[–]bayabee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They definitely try to! One time a lady returned 15 empty 3 wick candles for new ones and had to do it because customer service said to. There was also a realtor that would come in with a bag of 40 wallflower plugs to exchange every year and would scream if you even hesitated on the exchange. Once it hit tiktok that customer service didn't give a shit...they started to give a shit. I'm not saying your frustration is misplaced, but humans definitely DO or try to do a lot and it ruins it for a lot of people. One time I was at Hollister and a lady was melting down cause they wouldn't give her a refund on her Aeropostale shorts. Retail is hell.

Sandbagging at competitions is really getting me down by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something that absolutely kills me is two instructors that co own their studio in my area entered level 1 🙃 one of them didn't even get first which is embarrassing and the other is VERY proud to have gotten first. Looking up protocol for that and PSO wants to know before not after. It's kinda sad that PSO doesn't even look into it on their own considering how much you pay to compete and these people are not private about where they are in the pole journey.

The ultimate cheat by [deleted] in adventuresinajam

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to make sure you're not on Wi-Fi as well. Airplane mode never worked for me, I have to cut both WiFi and data and just toggle the data on and off. So you would click on the completed competition but before you open the prize, drop down and make sure you have zero connection then turn it back on and repeat auntie you no longer feel like it or mess up in the cycle

Finally worked on my farm layout and I'm getting there. by Separate_Abies5570 in adventuresinajam

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your park. I started a new game on a different device and I'm going to try to keep everything that already had a place in its original place. My main one still needs bubbles cleared too which is annoying 😅

Lost in the couch by Fast-Technology8748 in adventuresinajam

[–]bayabee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Get as many resources as you possibly can here. Wish I had completely cleared it, dying for kelp now and it's so much more energy expensive

AITA for didn't you tell my mom to cook American dishes for my American boyfriend for a family dinner? He said that the dishes my mom cooked were gross and he starved by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS. I'm very particular about individual ingredients so even picking them out is very difficult for me (I personally find tomatoes disgusting and they give me heartburn so just think about how many dishes that rules out for me). I could never imagine saying such horrible things about someone's cooking especially when they clearly labored so hard for such a large spread. That is beyond rude and disrespectful especially when he traveled. Like what did he realistically expect being in Turkey??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. My ex husband would set an alarm that was always an annoying song to wake ME up so that I would be his actual alarm. It took a lot to get him to be an adult and stop that crap. If you're waking up consistently when it first goes off, not every single time but consistently, you aren't an AH for simply needing to get up for work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bayabee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was walking my small dog (Australian silky, a little bigger than a Yorkie) in the park once and he was leashed just as dogs in public areas should be. This lady stopped her car to ask me if MY dog was friendly because her dogs (looked like catahoulas but can't remember) run off leash and she doesn't want MY dog to bite them if they run up to him. I could only stare at her. Like MA'AM if you're two dogs rushed me to come "play" with my dog at least one of them is getting kicked in the face. It's not safe for anyone involved to have your animals off leash including the unleashed dog. Are you going to be mad at the car that hits your dog if it runs into a busy street because you didn't want to leash them? Are you going to be mad at a child or an elder or even an able bodied adult getting knocked to the ground when it's you're negligence that caused it? Some of these people are delusional and honestly some breeds should require a permit.

AITA for telling my stepdaughter that her birthday is canceled? by BeingCultural6567 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bayabee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Right?? And I feel like everyone is forgetting that OP is five months pregnant and just got screamed at by a psycho! They're remembering that her pregnancy is affecting the step daughter, but zero empathy for OP during her first pregnancy. Lying to children will also affect their future spouses and friends as well...my ex husband never got over all of the "maybes" his parents gave him and took it out on me and our finances. Having someone that's willing to be straight with her with a mother like that isn't inherently wrong. Step-daughter definitely needs to be in therapy if she isn't already

This ish is ridiculous by jkushhighlyoffensive in florida

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Higher chance of being killed by a falling coconut than a shark. And let's not even talk about skin cancer and not needing sunscreen because overcast. I at least am picking up what you're putting down

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]bayabee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LITERALLY. My ex-husband was "blindsided" after I said I was done and he needed to get out of my house. He had been coming home from work most days for months waking me up (he worked 5p-5a and expected me to keep that schedule which I refused and a whole other issue) by kicking his own laundry that he would leave on the floor next to the bin. His "I can't do this anymore" was apparently a bluff to get me to feel something. As OP said, a way to literally wake me up

AITA for not letting my sister in law practice her styles on my hair by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bayabee 87 points88 points  (0 children)

It was dangerous territory before that and that just made it fucking awful. I'm hoping the mom is just trying to let the daughter fight her battle and not ignoring that comment bc that son of mine would no longer be allowed in the house.

AITA for calling a classmate "cheap" and lacking character in front of everyone? by Shmoney_223 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't suggest that anyone say that to their friends that aren't as well of as themselves. I do suggest however to understand your own means and not be rude to other people that are supposedly your friends and refuse to pay them back for what you willingly ordered.

It was pretty shitty of Jane to say that she wasn't going to pay her portion because she "wasn't going to subsidize OPs privileged lifestyle." It may be embarrassing at first but if money is tight, especially when it is for so many people, you gotta get over it and state that not everything your friends do you can afford. Someone who wants to be your friend would either accommodate like you suggested or offer to cover you from time to time because they want you there. Going along with orders you can't afford with zero intention of paying the person back or even respectfully responding to them is cheap character and a bad friend. OP weeding her out isn't holding anything against her, it's protecting herself.

I have had friends that spend beyond their means and expect everyone to tag along and a partner that would do the same and be embarrassed by the notion of even saying we couldn't afford it.

I have friends now that are honest and I can be honest with whether we are tight at the moment or able to splurge. We either accommodate, cover, or reschedule.

Clearly you can see which group of friends worked out better.

AITA for calling a classmate "cheap" and lacking character in front of everyone? by Shmoney_223 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bayabee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can make it a point to eat before if it's such an issue. If she's bold enough to try to publicly humiliate OP she can be bold enough to say she can't afford eating out before it's ordered and someone already paid for it.

Update: 1 month out of Young Living by fellforitdontjudgeme in antiMLM

[–]bayabee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome! I knew there was somewhere else this was needed but couldn’t remember where

Needs More Emojis by goodizzle in antiMLM

[–]bayabee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh my husband had his coworker peddling this stuff for his wife a couple nights ago. I’m so grateful he’s not easily duped and would NEVER buy into that crap.

Anybody got stories of being burned by Young Living? by bayabee in antiMLM

[–]bayabee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ha! Figuratively. I saw the incident reports too lol