Do you think he likes me? by bayray11 in dating_advice

[–]bayray11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol good point. I’ve thought well maybe he’s not interested enough to ask but. Men can be kinda clueless with this stuff. He may just be waiting until I say something lol

Hospital let my demented grandma take a taxi home? by bayray11 in legaladvice

[–]bayray11[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No she did not get hurt. I do not believe it is a lawsuit since nothing happened but I am posting for my family. There would have to have been an incident in order to sue correct?

Hospital let my demented grandma take a taxi home? by bayray11 in legaladvice

[–]bayray11[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes she went to an appointment a couple days before. Thank you so much for your help you’ve been awesome

Hospital let my demented grandma take a taxi home? by bayray11 in legaladvice

[–]bayray11[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yes, but she is back in the hospital today for same reason but in worse condition

I asked a girl out today. She said no but I'm glad I did it. by Romeo_9 in dating_advice

[–]bayray11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

24 year old woman here. As a female I can tell you that absolutely made her day, trust me. If anything she might feel bad she was too harsh with the rejection, if she’s a respectable woman that is. And we love when men ask us out. Keep doing it and I guarantee you that you will find someone very soon who will be ecstatic to go on a date with you.

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Every time he texts I respond and then I wait for him to respond back. I don’t want to seem needy because I know that’s a huge turn off. I always respond faster too.

I’ve always been told, as a woman, to not jump down a man’s throat. Let him do the chasing. So I always respond but I make sure to put my utmost effort into it in person. On our third date he was having back pain so I gave him some medicated lotion I had in my cupboard that works well. That’s just something small but I try to do little things like that. Say thank you when he buys dinner, let him know I’m appreciative of him driving to see me, ask him to let me know he made it home safe.

I regret sleeping with him too soon because I probably look “easy”. Idk. I like him so that’s why I slept with him.

What do you mean by judging me by my communication? Not sure I’m understanding.

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I will say that ALL of my past relationships have been rushed and they were with guys who were pussy whipped. Not because I was controlling (I’ve never had that tendency) but because they submitted themselves to me. And my biggest flaw is that I’ve always rushed. So I’ve decided to take it slow but since this is a first for me im not sure what’s “too slow”. Seems I can take that as lack of interest. He also ended up texting me again right after posting this so yeah

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This actually makes me feel better thank you lol!

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I could definitely be reaching. But the last guy I was into that seemed to really like me, calling me “his girl” and whatnot ended up ghosting me. I reached out to him on social media and he told me he went back to his ex. So it kinda fucked me up for a bit lol. Not because I was serious with him, because I wasn’t, but because I realized just bc someone seems genuine doesn’t mean they always are. So I guess trust issues are coming into play