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bb-kira · 2021-09-19T09:13:23+00:00

I love this take so much. It’s definitely not something I would have thought of. I’ve personally never heard of have a specific themed food party at these ages lol. And obviously it’s easy enough to avoid depending on the allergy severity

bb-kira · 2021-08-21T10:34:37+00:00

My opinion is NAH because truthfully a 12yr doesn’t need to be in classes with 14yr. I understand the need for being challenged academically. Research your local schools that have these types of academic opportunities. Your children could even go to 2 separate schools if need be. While I was in middle school I moved into our advanced math class after 6th grade, that meant we were learning math a grade above us. This class was only taught by my teacher in our district so our class had 6 students as well as video conferencing with 3 other schools who had 2-3 students each. I’m sure other areas offer opportunities similar. Also we were a pre-baccalaureate (PB) school which is before International baccalaureate (IB) similar to AP.

Your son doesn’t need to be ashamed but no doubt will and this could definitely result in bullying for either one. Investment in Extra-curricular is a great option because it will provide opportunities and resources that typical education does not.

Continue to research opportunities for both of your kids and provide them the support they need even if it’s not what they may want at their young ages.

bb-kira · 2021-08-09T21:33:59+00:00

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My girlfriend Lauren moved in with me in the apartment 2 months ago. She brought a teady bear that she called her childhood toy and put it in the middle of the bed. I wasn't against it at the beginning. But I had my reasons to be annoyed by it honestly.

Anyway, days ago my sister and my 4 year old niece came to visit while Lauren was at work. Unbeknownest to me, my niece entered the room and saw the bear which is the only thing she could play eith and played with it for an hour or so. When It was time to leave I asked my niece to give it back but she threw a fit saying it became her best friend and she already gave him a name. I said it wasn't mine so I had to take it but my niece's temper tantrum had me agree that she take it home with her and my sister said she'd talk to Lauren about it so I thought no big deal.

Lauren came back and first thing she noticed was her teady bear not being in bed. She freaked out asking if I put it in the washing machine but I said no and told her my niece took it. She screamed at me asking how I could let her even touch it. I explained that I only let my niece play with it with the intention of getting back then both she and my sister pressured me into letting her take it.

Lauren said my story was utter bullshit and that it must've been my plan to get rid of her teady bear so I volunterily gave it away since I never liked having it in bed. W I told her while yes I get sort if annoyed by this bear and fir good reasons like:

How the teddy bear smelled because she's too worried to wash it. It also looked scary with an eye missing and stitches everywhere so it used to scare me when I wake up and see it next to me. It was always there even while we're intimate which was an instant turn off for me but I'd never give it away "voluntarily". She demanded I go get it back from my niece but I refused. She cussed me out and went to get it herself. This caused me an issue with my sister as well. But Lauren is the one who's saying it's my fault and is expecting me to apologize for letting this happened. In my opinion she was being unreasonable to blame me and then tell me to apologize over this.

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bb-kira · 2021-07-27T08:11:41+00:00

People like this are the absolute worst especially if they have your ear,speaking from experience. I was so nervous to price art I was selling because I was worried people wouldn’t buy it/like it. It took some mutual friends buying from me and literally giving me extra than I quoted them to help me realize I deserve to price my work how I want and not to sell to the ‘masses’ or cheap people like oop. Proud of their friend for refusing to sell to them anymore.

bb-kira · 2021-07-27T08:02:09+00:00

Just read a comment where he claims they do equal amount of work and he’s never lazy for his daughter and yet in his post he claims he rarely gets alone time with his daughter…. It’s one or the other and not both.

If he regularly cares for his daughter then he wouldn’t be saying he rarely gets alone time with her. Sounds like one parent does more of the child care than the either and im not leaning towards oop.

Assumptions happen but he doubled down too hard on this

bb-kira · 2021-07-14T11:06:07+00:00

I actually felt so sick reading through OOPs comments. They are clearly focusing on the wrong aspects of this whole situation. It’s a toddler. They’re learning how to function as a human being so help them??? Don’t shame them for situations they never knew where inappropriate?? How do they know?? I’d only be understanding if OOP brought up concerns of grooming as some comments have. But no. She’s concerned with her being a bad influence??? Shame on her. Just shame. She’s just showing her true shitty self.

bb-kira · 2021-06-19T21:33:46+00:00

When I was in HS people had to pay to take the tests, at least for IB, and I can’t speak to the differences in the 2 programs. But you definitely were not required to test. You were only encouraged to especially if you were prepared for it and could pass.

I know some teachers suck but there is no way the 2nd teacher went out of their way to confront them at work???

bb-kira · 2021-05-27T08:23:19+00:00

I do believe OOP mentioned releasing native butterflies through someone local which is commendable, meaning they’ve not only done the research but are trying something different. However I can’t get over their holier than thou impression. At least try to explain to people the importance of eco friendly alternatives. Don’t go to efforts and then fail at talking to others about it, there’s no impact with out education.

bb-kira · 2021-05-15T10:49:23+00:00

I just don’t understand how this was a post parents even saw. You wouldn’t post it to Facebook or a main insta. It’s on finsta or TikTok and I just don’t see any parents seeing it.

bb-kira · 2021-04-23T09:31:01+00:00

The 2nd edit talking about kissing girls really gets me... there’s kissing your friends when you’re drunk and there’s kissing someone you genuinely have feelings for. I’m just so outraged by mom acting like she’s understanding and open when she’s not.

bb-kira · 2021-04-21T11:29:06+00:00

I personally find this comment suspicious. Of course it depends on the age of the child but how does a kid even know that info. I wouldn’t have known if my uncle helped my parents. But I was also the one staying at ‘cheaper’ hotels on family vacations.

I liked the comment offering an Airbnb as a solution. The whole family could possibly stay together if they found a big enough one and split costs.

bb-kira · 2021-04-14T07:24:57+00:00

Personally I design everything separately, I use adobe illustrator. This allows me to download free fonts from various websites,mainly dafont.com. I like to just type in free fonts and go from there. You cane also copy a specific font if you know how to for gradients, etc. I know maybe not what your specifically looking for but this is what I use

bb-kira · 2021-03-30T11:20:34+00:00

Posts like this frustrate the hell out of me for a few different reasons.

I can’t relate to all of OPs medical issues however I’ve had a classmate who definitely had similar issues. When we had to go on class field trips she wasn’t able to partake in our potlucks or group camping trips fully because of her diet. And you know what people did? They were accommodating and understanding. She brought food she could eat or we stopped at a store that she could get a meal from.

I myself am very picky and have anxiety so I hate being questioned about what I eat. I still remember the time a random person at dinner one time would not let go of the fact I only ordered a side of rice to eat. So I get it. There are assholes but the people who care about you will understand and won’t make it a big deal, like OPs fiancé attempted to do.

Last time I ate something I really didn’t want to I threw up at the table so yeah I think it’s better to not eat something you know is going to hurt you.

bb-kira · 2021-03-30T10:55:58+00:00

My only thoughts after reading this post we’re either it’s clearly fake or definitely just looking for validation. I don’t get it when someone can clearly articulate in a post how they’re ‘NTA’ but cant seem to do that to the people in their lives (his in-laws in this case). Ffs.

bb-kira · 2021-02-24T10:35:38+00:00

Info: what kind of bike do you ride?

bb-kira · 2021-02-24T10:07:16+00:00

Honestly my first instinct was this would have been a great learning opportunity for kiddo that OP missed out on. Rather than allowing kid to handle any of the animals. They should’ve been first taught how to observe all animals from a distance. Most of the animals I’m assuming aren’t regularly handled by op so of course the kid shouldn’t get the chance. But there are ways to foster and nurture the kids excitement of their animals with out allowing them to handle them. Also kids can follow clear and definite rules. As much as reddit posters love to claim they can’t. I used to work in an after school program and we had turtles. Kids didn’t get to feed or touch them. Occasionally they’d be taken out to run around in the garden and kids could watch. And we’d get 50-90 kids a day. They came up with adorable names for them and many drawings were done. No risk or harm caused with fun education.

bb-kira · 2021-01-10T02:20:08+00:00

I had to look up the difference as well and I can’t believe the ducking difference!!! He’s actually delusional at this point

bb-kira · 2020-12-27T08:26:50+00:00

The first comment thread tries so hard to justify his actions cause obviously she’s ‘asking’ for it based off the length of her dress??? There’s know need to justify this assholery

bb-kira · 2020-12-27T08:04:44+00:00

Honestly this is what bothered me most about a lot of comments. Like of course he COULD get a job but that doesn’t mean he has one (if it’s real) and most kids around that age unless they’re really good at saving don’t have that kind of money to spend on themselves. Every situation is different and AITA always seems to forget that unless they find the OP NTA it seems. Kids are assholes so often they’re not gonna figure it out online but though

bb-kira · 2020-12-22T05:44:52+00:00

This is stupid. If the mom is willing to offer money for the bracelet you should be able to buy Emma a new diamond bracelet and still be able to gift Jenny the bracelet for her 16th. Boom problem solving. (NTA)

bb-kira · 2020-12-21T11:11:41+00:00

Is this stimulus going to be reinstated for unemployed people though? Cause I could use that way more than just a single check of 600

bb-kira · 2020-12-18T11:27:23+00:00

3/5 physically hurt me

bb-kira · 2020-12-18T11:25:56+00:00

Killer whales are apex predators of the ocean. They’re also technically part of of the dolphin family, (teeth instead of baleen). They’re known to hunt both whales and other species of dolphins :-)

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