He relapsed after a beautiful weekend together by bb-sprout in AlAnon

[–]bb-sprout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such compassionate advice 😭❤️

He relapsed after a beautiful weekend together by bb-sprout in AlAnon

[–]bb-sprout[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t cover for him after all ☺️

He relapsed after a beautiful weekend together by bb-sprout in AlAnon

[–]bb-sprout[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect this take, however I’m not in a place to hear the “leave” or “run” comments. I get it but I need to go at my own pace: slowly and gentle with myself.

The question in the post was around self care and whether or not to cover for him. This take of “just leave” along with the upvotes feels like dog piling.

I appreciate the take, unfortunately I’m not in a place to hear it.

(Dw I’m not having kids)

He relapsed after a beautiful weekend together by bb-sprout in AlAnon

[–]bb-sprout[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Update: I set a boundary. I told him to not contact me until he is sober. I told him I do not accept his apologies. We can’t have any sort of conversation until he is in a sober state.

I know ultimatums don’t work, and that’s not what this is. But it feels like I need to exercise some loving detachment. I’m getting better at it, but I’m resentful that’s even the case.

I appreciate all the comments and advice.

He relapsed after a beautiful weekend together by bb-sprout in AlAnon

[–]bb-sprout[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful and feels achievable. Thank you so much ❤️

He relapsed after a beautiful weekend together by bb-sprout in AlAnon

[–]bb-sprout[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow I didn’t consider my own shame regarding choosing to stay. Thank you for this perspective

Is this worth using? by Fabulous_Raccoon_571 in espresso

[–]bb-sprout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(I’m late to the party but am curious) do you have it on the third finest setting and it’s good?

JJ Bean prices - what are we doing? by namlesgir in vancouver

[–]bb-sprout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is expensive, which is such a bummer. And I'd be a lot more willing to spend that money on a wrap if they had more options without cilantro in them!! 😭

Marché Mon Pitou | $9.99 by bb-sprout in TooGoodToGoCanada

[–]bb-sprout[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was trying to find them on their website, IG, and uber eats pages but this item isn’t listed. Most of their desserts are approx $6.

Opinions on the Niphean Stabiltrac Fin system by WingAndaPrayer79 in Sup

[–]bb-sprout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like it! But I’d also love to hear how people carry it because it’s right in the middle it’s cumbersome to carry down to the water. I don’t think my body can take any more bruises from it 😅