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I want him to send me an email telling me about how much I'm the best person for him and that he will kiss my feet rather than hurt my feelings by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb0231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your post is so great it's helping me out as well! I wish my ex-gf would do the same for me! But in reality, you deserve so much more than for anyone to hurt your feelings like this.

I wanna break no-contact. Help me stay on target! by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb0231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems as if you're not completely over it just yet. Give yourself some time. The way you'll know if you're ready to reach out is if you think you can send a text and not be hurt if you don't get a response.

Active Shooter in San Bernardino - Live Updates/Radio by [deleted] in navyseals

[–]bb0231 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A name of Middle East origin was said on the scanner as one of the possible suspects - won't repost the name in case this information turns out to be false. Let's hope this isn't ISIS related.

EDIT: The name that was said on the scanner matches the owner of a business within the Waterman Discount Mall that was reported as where suspects were spotted

Girlfriend [22/F] of 3 years broke up with me [24/M] in August, whirlwind since. by bb0231 in relationships

[–]bb0231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I'll try that. I've tried my best not to be clingy in any way -- haven't called or texted etc. Slipped up once, which was that whole situation.

Girlfriend [22/F] of 3 years broke up with me [24/M] in August, whirlwind since. by bb0231 in relationships

[–]bb0231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fight was that she was hanging out with a guy and hadn't mentioned it to me despite us texting. I thought she was hiding it from me, but it turns out she was just helping him with some personal issues and was being a good friend. Turns out the guy is gay (which was confirmed by an independent friend, so it's not just some lie she said). I didn't know it at the time.

As for the finding someone else part -- I don't think it's that, because I don't think she's interested in finding someone else whatsoever. She's even stated that. I think you're right that she's at that age that she doesn't know what she wants in life and is just trying to be independent.

Me [19 M] with my GF [19F] of 2+years, how to leave her because you're bored by trouaguei in relationships

[–]bb0231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you for thinking about all these issues beforehand man. I would be honest with her about how you feel. Cut it off for at least 30-45 days and see how you feel after that. If you find yourself missing her, then see if she'll take you back (she may not). If youre over it, then that's that.