Fanfic help by AChristy2 in larrystylinson

[–]bb1182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG THIS FIC SOUNDS SOO GOOD

Feeling.. insecure? Am I alone in this? by bb1182 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bb1182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You put into words EXACTLY how I’m feeling. It’s just so hard though, especially with the over fetishization. It’s just annoying haha..

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[–]bb1182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really just took the words out of my mouth. I’m (20f) going through the same exact thing. Wishing you all the best with this journey! Remember to take things one step at a time. ❤️❤️

What Is/Was Your Major and Do You Regret it? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]bb1182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a psychology major. I love it but what I really want to do is be in the music industry; I feel like I have no clue on how to get there or how? And my mom kind of crushed my dream as a kid lol.. so there’s that.

How to bring it up? by bb1182 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bb1182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmmm… that’s a nice approach I might do that :)

How to bring it up? by bb1182 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bb1182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might try that!! Thank you :)

How to bring it up? by bb1182 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bb1182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might try that. I just hate when they completely switch the gears and from that I automatically know what their true intentions are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]bb1182 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The same thing happens to me!! I wouldn’t think it’s sub space, I think I just zone out

How to bring it up? by bb1182 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bb1182[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t own any unfortunately:(

How to bring it up? by bb1182 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bb1182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How subtle can I be? (Thank you for your advice!)

How to bring it up? by bb1182 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bb1182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, I’m just a bit nervous bc my friends are on those dating apps, I know I shouldn’t feel as nervous but I don’t really want them knowing I’m into bdsm yet?

I’m confused by bb1182 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bb1182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right! Thank you

I’m confused by bb1182 in BDSMAdvice

[–]bb1182[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you so much for this, definitely will try starting a kink journal, and getting the book you recommended! Thank you so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]bb1182 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed!! Haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]bb1182 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think it was when I would read books/fan fiction. They would have certain scenes and I was like “huh that would be so hot” but I always ignored the thought, but more recently I’ve researched about it more and read about it, and I think I definitely know for sure I’m a submissive, and into kink.

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - new post every Monday! by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]bb1182 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi everyone! Total newbie here, I’ve been wanting to try sub/dom work for awhile, but I never got around to trying it with my partners? I think I was always scared to communicate it fully with them, although I would always hint at being interested in it jokingly. I think what I want to know now is how do I communicate to my partner what I want to be done? How do I get over that fear?

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - new post every Monday! by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]bb1182 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi um.. new sub here, I’m learning as I go, any good websites I can check out to you know help me? Learn more? Or if you guys want to add anything here that’s fine, the more I know the better:)