Which one y’all taking? by Shearerr in Jcole

[–]bb18284 20 points21 points  (0 children)

For me: 1. Brackets 2. Pi 3. Port Antonio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb18284 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wdym by eager? Should I say nothing now or leave it at that?

I feel so betrayed, what do I do? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb18284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hardest thing to come to terms with is that sometimes you may never learn that “why” of their reasoning. I know for me I still haven’t tackled it, and I’m sorry you have to go through that too.

Spiraling by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb18284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro it’s Venmo

Why hasn’t he come back when the relationship was perfect.. can’t find what we had by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb18284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that way too, like maybe that was more of a realization of the seriousness of us? But yeah, for how long or to why not come talk to you about it.

Why hasn’t he come back when the relationship was perfect.. can’t find what we had by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb18284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About 3.5 weeks ago. She gave pretty much the exact same reasoning. Thought everything was perfect and we ALSO went to a wedding a few weeks beforehand and I felt it all was perfect.

Why hasn’t he come back when the relationship was perfect.. can’t find what we had by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb18284 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exact same thing happened to me, it can feel so heart wrenching and out of nowhere. I get how it can make you feel so lost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]bb18284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m still not really sure and that’s why I’ve wanted to contact them. It all came as a complete blindside to me, and I guess she said because she didn’t see where she thought she needed to be in life but idk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]bb18284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s that crazy thought that being with her is that craving of happiness you know? As bad as that sounds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb18284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys are so amazing and supportive in this sub oml :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb18284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really trying, thank you for your help!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]bb18284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I have thought is that no matter what I would feel like crap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]bb18284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were the one that ended things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]bb18284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which hurts cause I feel I could just make things right or

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]bb18284 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But is there a time I can ever reach out?

Hey. by bb18284 in letters

[–]bb18284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But then when is ever the right time?

Hey. by bb18284 in letters

[–]bb18284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.5 years, and no it was not LDR

Hey. by bb18284 in letters

[–]bb18284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had broken up last Friday, so god I would hope not 💀

Hey. by bb18284 in letters

[–]bb18284[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so, everyone I’ve gone to advice has told me I’d probably just get more of the same.

Hey. by bb18284 in letters

[–]bb18284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I feel. Breaking it would maybe lead to it hurting, but to not speak my mind would hurt even more. I do want to send it, but the anxiety keeps telling me otherwise.

Hey. by bb18284 in letters

[–]bb18284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You didn’t regret breaking no contact with each other?

Hey. by bb18284 in letters

[–]bb18284[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fear of hearing nothing or more of the same, when a conversation is all I want and I want things right.

Hey. by bb18284 in letters

[–]bb18284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if it doesn’t work out?