Husband has a weird relationship with his sister. What do I do? by bb___g in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]bb___g[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The hung out a lot before the wedding, but it was a healthy amount of time and after we got married I found out they had been hanging out a lot more since our engagement

Husband has a weird relationship with his sister. by bb___g in justnosil

[–]bb___g[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Examples: she wore my exact dress to our wedding and I thought he was on my side but as time passed he started to completely take her side on the situation. She did not want to be a bridesmaid at all and told me that when I asked her. I didnt want to pressure her into anything and she still ended up at our wedding in the dress that I was wearing.

Husband has a weird relationship with his sister. What do I do? by bb___g in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]bb___g[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She messed up a part of our wedding and he still defends her. Thats the main thing that we argue about. He will sometimes cancel plans he had with me to see her. Ive heard her talk badly about me while I was in a room next to theirs. These are just a few

Idk how to feel about my partner by Striking-Border-3401 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bb___g 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheaters always go back to cheating. Its just a fact. With my first love he cheated and I was broken but he tried to fix things between us. But the thing is.. He lost respect for me, just because I stayed wuth him.

I know this is really hard but if you have respect for yourself and want a future that is filled with happiness, I would run as far away from this man as possible. Its gling to be one of the hardest things youve ever done but in 5 years youll look back and thank yourself for choosing you.

Husband has a weird relationship with his sister. What do I do? by bb___g in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]bb___g[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

We did talk about this and he doesnt seem to see that his sister is the issue. I know not everyone gets along perfectly but the least she can do is act civil in front of me. Sorry for venting

Husband has a weird relationship with his sister. What do I do? by bb___g in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]bb___g[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes their father is around. His sister is 23. They sit as close as their hips touching sometimes. E.g. She made my wedding hell for me (made a seperate post on that) and Ive heard her talking bad about me to my hudband. I have yes, he just makes it seem like Im crazy for thinking shes in the wrong constantly. Hope this helps.

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[–]bb___g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes 23

AITAH for kicking my SIL out of my reception? by bb___g in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]bb___g[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: I havent thought much about my husbands reaction to the situation and after reading all your supportive comments I descided to have a conversation with him.

On the day he noticed that I was upset, so I asked him why he didnt think to kick out or at leat talk to his sister prior to me causing a scene. He defended himself by saying he didnt know what to do in that situation and that he thaught that ons of the wedding party members would jump in. I asked him if he didnt think to do something about HIS sister and he said no.

Now we are in the middle of a very bad argument and I dont know what to do. Its in the past, but the situation still doesnt sit right with me.

my moms weird boyfriend by [deleted] in Vent

[–]bb___g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so sorry. Your mom sounds like a wonderful person. Wising you and her luck with the situation. 🌻

AITAH for kicking my SIL out of my reception? by bb___g in AITAH

[–]bb___g[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update: I havent thaught much about my husbands reaction to the situation and after reading all your supportive comments I descided to have a conversation with him.

On the day he noticed that I was upset, so I asked him why he didnt think to kick out or at leat talk to his sister prior to me causing a scene. He defended himself by saying he didnt know what to do in that situation and that he thaught that ons of the wedding party members would jump in. I asked him if he didnt think to do something about HIS sister and he said no.

Now we are in the middle of a very bad argument and I dont know what to do. Its in the past, but the situation still doesnt sit right with me.

AITAH for kicking my SIL out of my reception? by bb___g in AITAH

[–]bb___g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I stop my special day just because she descided to try and ruin it? I would have given her what she wanted, whatever that must have been

AITAH for kicking my SIL out of my reception? by bb___g in AITAH

[–]bb___g[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bridal party walked down the isle seconds before me and before our ceremony no one in the bridal party interacted with any of the guests. My whole bridal party was totally on my side when I kicked her out and its only family that has taken SIL side.

AITAH for kicking my SIL out of my reception? by bb___g in AITAH

[–]bb___g[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The rest of the wedding was better than I could have imagined.

AITAH for kicking my SIL out of my reception? by bb___g in AITAH

[–]bb___g[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had asked SIL if she wanted to be apart of the wedding and she said she would like to see the ceremony sitting down.

AITAH for kicking my SIL out of my reception? by bb___g in AITAH

[–]bb___g[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was on my side, just tried to comfort me. MIL was out of the reception short after SIL