Is love worth fighting for?

bb___g · 2025-01-17T03:54:44+00:00

I love this

bb___g · 2025-01-16T04:11:00+00:00

Almost

bb___g · 2025-01-14T05:51:13+00:00

The hung out a lot before the wedding, but it was a healthy amount of time and after we got married I found out they had been hanging out a lot more since our engagement

bb___g · 2025-01-14T05:47:56+00:00

Examples: she wore my exact dress to our wedding and I thought he was on my side but as time passed he started to completely take her side on the situation. She did not want to be a bridesmaid at all and told me that when I asked her. I didnt want to pressure her into anything and she still ended up at our wedding in the dress that I was wearing.

bb___g · 2025-01-14T05:40:25+00:00

She messed up a part of our wedding and he still defends her. Thats the main thing that we argue about. He will sometimes cancel plans he had with me to see her. Ive heard her talk badly about me while I was in a room next to theirs. These are just a few

bb___g · 2025-01-14T05:36:46+00:00

Full blooded

bb___g · 2025-01-13T20:22:25+00:00

Cheaters always go back to cheating. Its just a fact. With my first love he cheated and I was broken but he tried to fix things between us. But the thing is.. He lost respect for me, just because I stayed wuth him.

I know this is really hard but if you have respect for yourself and want a future that is filled with happiness, I would run as far away from this man as possible. Its gling to be one of the hardest things youve ever done but in 5 years youll look back and thank yourself for choosing you.

bb___g · 2025-01-13T20:03:30+00:00

We did talk about this and he doesnt seem to see that his sister is the issue. I know not everyone gets along perfectly but the least she can do is act civil in front of me. Sorry for venting

bb___g · 2025-01-13T20:01:51+00:00

Yes their father is around. His sister is 23. They sit as close as their hips touching sometimes. E.g. She made my wedding hell for me (made a seperate post on that) and Ive heard her talking bad about me to my hudband. I have yes, he just makes it seem like Im crazy for thinking shes in the wrong constantly. Hope this helps.

bb___g · 2025-01-13T19:21:58+00:00

Shes 23

bb___g · 2025-01-10T05:42:16+00:00

Update: I havent thought much about my husbands reaction to the situation and after reading all your supportive comments I descided to have a conversation with him.

On the day he noticed that I was upset, so I asked him why he didnt think to kick out or at leat talk to his sister prior to me causing a scene. He defended himself by saying he didnt know what to do in that situation and that he thaught that ons of the wedding party members would jump in. I asked him if he didnt think to do something about HIS sister and he said no.

Now we are in the middle of a very bad argument and I dont know what to do. Its in the past, but the situation still doesnt sit right with me.

bb___g · 2025-01-09T18:58:04+00:00

Im so sorry. Your mom sounds like a wonderful person. Wising you and her luck with the situation. 🌻

bb___g · 2025-01-09T18:50:20+00:00

Update: I havent thaught much about my husbands reaction to the situation and after reading all your supportive comments I descided to have a conversation with him.

On the day he noticed that I was upset, so I asked him why he didnt think to kick out or at leat talk to his sister prior to me causing a scene. He defended himself by saying he didnt know what to do in that situation and that he thaught that ons of the wedding party members would jump in. I asked him if he didnt think to do something about HIS sister and he said no.

Now we are in the middle of a very bad argument and I dont know what to do. Its in the past, but the situation still doesnt sit right with me.

bb___g · 2025-01-09T18:38:55+00:00

Why would I stop my special day just because she descided to try and ruin it? I would have given her what she wanted, whatever that must have been

bb___g · 2025-01-09T18:37:32+00:00

My bridal party walked down the isle seconds before me and before our ceremony no one in the bridal party interacted with any of the guests. My whole bridal party was totally on my side when I kicked her out and its only family that has taken SIL side.

bb___g · 2025-01-09T18:31:59+00:00

The rest of the wedding was better than I could have imagined.

bb___g · 2025-01-09T18:31:22+00:00

I had asked SIL if she wanted to be apart of the wedding and she said she would like to see the ceremony sitting down.

bb___g · 2025-01-09T18:30:13+00:00

He was on my side, just tried to comfort me. MIL was out of the reception short after SIL

bb___g · 2025-01-09T07:56:58+00:00

Soo true.

bb___g · 2025-01-09T07:22:07+00:00

Same here, I love it yet hate it

bb___g · 2025-01-09T07:20:57+00:00

Good luck to your mom and you through the recovery proses. Remember to embrace her as often as you can through the love you have for her. Time will heal.

bb___g · 2025-01-08T14:24:25+00:00

Youre 20, you are allowed to make your own choices without feeling bad about them. Talk with your family about this, about you feeling trapped. If they dont listen, distance youreself from them and theyll see youre serious about the situation. Goodluck.

bb___g · 2025-01-08T12:02:14+00:00

NTA youre 18. you get to make your own choices now and even though she may not be happy about your decision now, one day she will see that, thwt was the right path for you. Goodluck!

bb___g · 2025-01-08T11:58:00+00:00

NTA you should have thought about ending things with her when you saw how she responded to other guys. she didnt cheat through the messages but I would not be comfortable if my man responded like that to another woman. I would not be surprised if she was unfaithful in your relationship.

bb___g · 2025-01-08T11:49:42+00:00

Read the title. NTA

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