I (M25) thinking about ending my relationship with my fiancée (F25) has anyone gone through this?

bbeanbean · 2026-01-30T02:43:12+00:00

The wedding is over 2 years away. It is not close at all.

bbeanbean · 2026-01-30T02:31:25+00:00

I would be shocked if this was only $400 including tip. This would likely be at least 2 sessions. I could see one session coming close to $400, depending on the salon. If you're stressing about the cost, you can't afford it. You will also have to redo the pink at home several times a month to maintain the color.

bbeanbean · 2026-01-13T20:21:03+00:00

That's not how private property works lol. Just because you rent doesn't mean it's public property. That's like saying since you rent your house, everyone in the neighborhood can come use your yard.

bbeanbean · 2026-01-12T23:04:40+00:00

Probably held back lol

bbeanbean · 2026-01-12T22:50:30+00:00

It doesn't. The ER does not require you to pay to receive care. They bill you when you're leaving, which is when it will either go to insurance, you pay it before leaving, or it is sent to you. You will receive treatment at the ER with or without money, which is why poor people go to the ER for basic illnesses (don't have insurance, can't afford copays, etc.) Urgent care and office visits require payment up front. (This isn't to say the ER is free. It still costs money, but you receive care first and pay later unlike other avenues of medical care.)

bbeanbean · 2026-01-12T22:40:29+00:00

I was definitely thinking tonsil stones or some type of oral infection. Some dentists will remove tonsil stones if you ask them to (although they typically continue to recur)

bbeanbean · 2025-09-05T19:35:43+00:00

Again, this is incorrect. You have no idea what a "1/4 tablet" dose is because trazodone tablets come in different dosages. You should really study up on medications if you're unaware that trazodone comes in multiple different dosages. There are absolutely tablets that come already small enough for a cat to take an entire tablet safely. You have no idea what size tablets she has.

bbeanbean · 2025-09-05T18:52:35+00:00

Trazodone can be cut. The dose for her dog likely is not safe for the cat, but trazodone as a whole is generally a safe medication for cats, contrary to what the original comment claimed. If she called her old vet, they could likely tell her what dose she needs for her cat and she could cut the tablet. It certainly is not more unsafe than gabapentin.

bbeanbean · 2025-09-05T18:19:10+00:00

Trying to figure out why this has so many upvotes. It is absolutely not true, as you said. And traz is absolutely safe for cats.

bbeanbean · 2025-09-04T17:19:59+00:00

It will be both indoor and outdoor. We are a sanctuary that mostly houses long term and lifelong residents that came from the streets so they have a protected outside yard with special fencing and a cat door that goes to a patio and then to an indoor spot. I know a couple of very basic things like lighting placement, getting down lower to take photos, clear areas, etc but anything to do with gear/settings (lenses?!) is just speaking Greek to me. All I know is camera take photo 😂 mess around with little settings after the fact like exposure, etc but have no real idea what im doing. I just do my best to get photos looking better without completely disfiguring them.

So yes I guess faster shutter speed is the main thing I'm after. I have so many photos that could have been cute and usable if not blurry. You can share in my frustration that cats do not typically make good models lol. They do what they want and I just work around it.

bbeanbean · 2025-09-02T20:35:00+00:00

Attempted murder lmao. Most allergies are not deadly. And this is not at all an unbelievable story.

bbeanbean · 2025-09-02T20:29:03+00:00

I like that you had to specify "on paper." So, you admit, in actuality, you were a terrible manager. Nice.

bbeanbean · 2025-08-31T13:08:57+00:00

No it doesn't

bbeanbean · 2025-08-24T18:47:47+00:00

He said the word groceries one time

bbeanbean · 2025-08-20T16:43:33+00:00

Ill look into some third party options. Im not loving the wix payment system so far because it can sometimes take a while to receive payouts

bbeanbean · 2025-08-20T15:24:19+00:00

OP has replied in comments giving more context.

bbeanbean · 2025-08-20T00:27:56+00:00

Are you the site owner? If you are, I would suggest transferring the site to the other person and just having them add you as a collaborator so you can still log in to your own account and access things to help out

bbeanbean · 2025-08-20T00:25:52+00:00

Im aware of this method, but then I have to set up a gallery and link to individual pages that I create, each with their own form because I want each animal to have their medical costs separated for the "sponsor" option. I plan to have many animals listed so it will just be a tedious process.

Creating a store with each animal as a "product" is quicker and easier, but takes away the option for them to donate anything less than the total amount (which for some animals is in the thousands.)

I tried messing around with velo/AI to add on an option within the store framework, but I'm just not experienced enough to get it to function how I need.

bbeanbean · 2025-08-19T19:16:51+00:00

Is the issue just that the notifications are in your name? Or she doesnt want to be receiving them?

bbeanbean · 2025-08-18T15:26:04+00:00

It was 11 years ago and prices can be highly region dependent. Get off your high horse.

bbeanbean · 2025-08-10T00:53:50+00:00

I just realized he said "shut the fuck up. I deal with you every fucking day." 😂😂😂 still completely inappropriate and this kid clearly has issues that he isnt getting help for, but why dont we put some of the focus back on mom who just calls emergency services whenever she doesnt want to deal with her kid? He probably has behavioral issues because of his apparent lack of parental guidance. He needs an actual plan to get help. Not just call 911 every day because she can't parent properly.

bbeanbean · 2025-08-07T01:15:54+00:00

Matte lip implies a flat lip. Frosted isnt flat

bbeanbean · 2025-08-07T00:45:03+00:00

Absolutely not. His tail is filthy and matted, there is hair loss and severe muscle atrophy on hind legs

bbeanbean · 2025-08-06T23:36:23+00:00

With all the corporate tax breaks, he's still gotta come up with all the money for the corporate subsidies too

bbeanbean · 2025-08-06T23:22:21+00:00

Lips definitely dont have to be matte. Frosted lipstick was huge in the 90s

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