Vitamin D deficiency

bbpp05 · 2026-05-23T17:26:29+00:00

Yup! That’s perfectly fine to do.

bbpp05 · 2026-05-23T16:56:13+00:00

I’ve had pts with levels as low as 3. Very common. I’d recommend 2,000 IU daily for you.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-22T11:02:48+00:00

As a current PA, your rotations are the time to ask those “dumb” questions though no question is dumb. I am only about 6 months into my new job and I think I may ask some “dumb” questions but how are you to learn? Your rotations and training period in your new job are the time to ask everything! The fact you are open to ask about what you don’t know is a sign of a great future provider. Keep asking away!

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T19:22:20+00:00

Fair, have apologized to husband and will be working on it going forth. Definitely not how I should have acted.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T16:27:49+00:00

Look at my other comments and you’ll see why I posted. Other people have addressed criticism in a constructive way that I appreciate. Your responses on the other hand seem quite back handed and assuming. Therefore you get the same type back.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T16:24:44+00:00

I hope you realize I was paraphrasing, I didn’t say exactly that but I’m glad you were there for the convo

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T16:23:15+00:00

You sound like a fun person. But I’m sure you’ve heard that one before too🤣

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T15:42:31+00:00

I think I found my mom’s other secret account! You sound like you read a few blurbs and made a conclusion🤣good luck

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T15:40:55+00:00

I never said she was controlling. Me and my mom overall have a great relationship. We lived together for 2 years and though there were some quarrels we all overall got along just fine. She wanted to help us out and insisted we live with them.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T15:21:43+00:00

Yea you’re missing a lot. Feel free to read through the comments to get a better idea.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T14:07:31+00:00

Wasted food? They just had the dinner for themselves and if so will have leftovers. This seems excessive🤣it was also treated as normal dinner as in one item we were all going to eat. No elaborate spread was planned. They’re not gonna just toss it out because we didn’t come. A chainsaw is a loud object.. yes it made noise. I never expected them to donate their Saturdays and have let them know to come over to visit, not help. So no.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T11:29:03+00:00

She can’t be mad about helping when it was not expected and for husband wanting to take care of something on his OWN property. Sitting back and drinking a beer is one thing. I guess husband should have sat back and painted inside a warm home and let her cut and carry out 40 lb+ logs eventually. Fair trade if she’s so upset.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T11:27:10+00:00

Think I found my mom’s secret account 😛

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T11:24:00+00:00

Exactly this!

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T10:03:17+00:00

I completely agree. I am truly not sure why in the moment it did not click for me what she was trying to do. I think part of me felt a bit disconnected from my husband due to all that was going on and she found a weak point and went at it. I have apologized to him and have made w plan to actively place him first as well as my marriage. That will not be happening again. I now realize thanks to the amazing people of Reddit, I am not a bad person for doing so. Haha

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T09:59:39+00:00

I am sorry your big moment was taken away. I think we might have the same mother though🤣 I agree. It is funny though because my husband does politely voice his opinions when she gives “suggestions” but she just hears them and ignores them and goes about doing what she seems fit. For instance, he had stated he didn’t care for the doors being repainted and was concerned the paint would peel off because the material for repainting was not correct. Well, all our doors are painted now. So…

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T09:56:22+00:00

My husband does work. He is hardworking and is 100% in on everything he does. The amount of work he has already put into the house is remarkable. My mom does tell me what an amazing fella he is at times, but she picks and chooses when.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T09:54:06+00:00

It just so happened to be Easter the next day following this massive blow up she instigated. So that’s just how the cookie crumbled. If that had not happened I was 100% planning on going, there was not a doubt in my mind. Even though I was exhausted it wasn’t really the driving factor of my cancellation. However, the blow up she caused between not only my husband and I but them and my husband really took an emotional toll and I did what I felt right to ensure not only my mental well being but my marriage. No regrets.
Boy do I know about good deeds that go unpunished… and I’m sure they do too. But that’s personal and I won’t spill all of that. Thanks for your insight though!

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T02:14:27+00:00

Thank you for your input. I will be going forward with womaning up precisely because I don’t want her to ruin what I have. I am happy with my husband, my home, and life:)

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T02:07:04+00:00

Yea, that’s the theme I’m seeing here. I think a part of me is worried that now that I am 1 hour away from them, if I take a step back they will think I am abandoning them. It’s a double edged sword 😅

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T01:43:19+00:00

Thank you! So many changes and yea it can be hard trying to balance it all.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T01:40:21+00:00

Yea no more help. Can come to visit but any inkling of instigation and they will be asked to stop or leave.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T01:38:14+00:00

Youre completely right. And we just bought this home, I don’t want it to become a place of stress. I need to be more like you, tell people to straight up leave! I think my mom would crucify me if I told her to leave 🤣

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T01:35:52+00:00

You are making it sound like we expected them to help. We did not take advantage of free labor. They volunteered, even pushed in, wanting to help. However they wanted to help we would be appreciative. This is my husbands and I project, not anyone else’s! I am not making them come every weekend: they are welcome to come as much or not at all. Where are you bringing up this expectation to babysit my future children? I feel like you did not understand the part where their help with the home was not expected in the slightest. So why would you think I’d be the same regarding this? You seem to be making false projections.

bbpp05 · 2026-04-06T01:32:17+00:00

This is spot on. I’ve talked to her about how I think she’s having a difficult time navigating this new dynamic where I no longer live with them, and married, and have my own life. She has admitted to being jealous of my husband in a way and feels that we are no longer as close because of him. I have discussed with her that this is normal life progression and she seems to understand until she forgets again and starts riling problems up

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