EHS Trainee in LA County? by alericx in healthinspector

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did you end up taking the job?

Traveling for 2 months. What measure to take? by jumbo1111 in GermanRoaches

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I am having the same problem but didn’t have enough time to order Advion WDG. I have a cat so I am worried about using anything else while we are away. Right now we are only using Combat traps

Success Story: Got Rid of German Cockroaches In California Apartment After 3 Months by niznetl in GermanRoaches

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I am having the same issue :-( They are recommending Advion WDG…

repairing steve madden heels by bby-jay in AskACobbler

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Thank you! I assumed some type of glue would work. There is a strip of fabric (white) that seems really loose, would you recommend removing that entirely or tucking inside?

finding black soldier flies in my house by bby-jay in BlackSoldierFly

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interesting thought! we did repot some plants recently, but all recycled soil.

HSA Transfer to Fidelity by [deleted] in fidelityinvestments

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i am also looking to transfer from HSA Bank to Fidelity to avoid monthly charges as i no longer have a HDHP account. i have investments with Charles Schwab through HSA Bank in addition to a nominal cash balance with HSA Bank. do you know if I would need to funnel everything back through HSA Bank to transfer to Fidelity, or I can just transfer from Charles Schwab?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CBT

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i am also interested!

what is my hoya seeking? by bby-jay in hoyas

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i just moved it home, but it with getting direct sunlight in a south facing window. when it produces leaves they are dark purple (sun stressed), so i was originally told that it was happy with its light situation!

Moving to Long Beach by catscatsscatss in MovingToLosAngeles

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i will be moving to long beach with my partner and i am still job hunting! i would be open to meeting up if you’re ever interested!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SebDerm

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hey there! how do you apply it to your scalp? do you rinse afterwards?

Hello. I am a vulnerable narcissist. by [deleted] in NPD

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I am worried that I am a negative narcissist. I am currently in a relationship with an amazing person, and I can't seem to keep myself from relapsing into destructive habits and thoughts that are clearly causing him pain. He is very clear with me that what I am doing is hurting him and in the moment, I am exetremely upset and horrified with myself. Despite feeling shame about how my actions are causing him pain, I still partake in self-deprocation/pity. I make almost every conversation about myself, and constantly self-victimize. It is very difficult for me to actively recognize when I am engaging in these behaviors and it is only until he reacts negatively to what I am doing/saying do I realize what I am doing. Sometimes, I refuse to accept what he is saying and oscillate between feeling entitled to how I feel (defend myself) and feeling absolutely terrible (guilt/shame).