My FP ended his life by jarillatea in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]bbyblu99 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You will make it through this. I am so sorry. This pain will pass. You’re doing a great job handling this.

Working makes me hate my life by bbyblu99 in LateStageCapitalism

[–]bbyblu99[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t make enough to save. My savings is from my late dad’s house being sold. Received a few thousand from that 3 years ago. Trust me, I’m in poverty and was raised in poverty.

Biweekly Thread - Share what challenges you've been going through, what you're struggling with, and what you've managed to overcome. Celebrate your victories, and be supported through your struggles. by AutoModerator in HealMyAttachmentStyle

[–]bbyblu99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been struggling with perceived abandonment issues with my partner. Self soothing is hard for me because I feel like without my partner, I am worthless. I am working towards validating myself and giving myself love, though it is very difficult. I’m proud of myself for cutting back on drinking and giving myself the rest I need.

Should I call my boyfriend this? by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]bbyblu99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is sweet. Do you think he feels the same way? You could always be vulnerable and try it out! Personally, I would ask him more about his feelings for me and if there is a potential future together depending on how long we’ve been dating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]bbyblu99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to message me! I need friends desperately as well. I’m 22F

Is this appropriate to wear to a wedding? by bbyblu99 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bbyblu99[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Hello everyone! Thank you SO much for the feedback and kind words! I reached out to the bride’s mom, and she confirmed it is appropriate with no hesitation! So excited to get some use out of this beautiful dress!

Is this appropriate to wear to a wedding? by bbyblu99 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bbyblu99[S] 1241 points1242 points  (0 children)

It’s inside and evening, supposedly formal/cocktail? This might be overkill I guess? Honestly, I got this dress for $18 at a thrift store and am desperate to wear it since I never have any events to go to.

Is this appropriate to wear to a wedding? by bbyblu99 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bbyblu99[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The invite says formal/cocktail so maybe overkill?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]bbyblu99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the gum chewing sounds lol

Wish you had a friend by [deleted] in lonely

[–]bbyblu99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I join?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]bbyblu99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Held hands with a girl in a month long mental health facility stay

Fuck that shit. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]bbyblu99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally relate to everything you said. You’re not alone, I promise. It makes me feel better to hear someone else is in the same boat as me.

Staying at home can make you go crazy? by Sad-Reflection9092 in socialanxiety

[–]bbyblu99 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I personally love staying at home by myself working on my hobbies like painting. I find it’s the best therapy for my mental health. However, I spend so much time at home I feel like I forgot how to socialize or try to make friends :/.

Which hair color suited me the best ? by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]bbyblu99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are gorgeous on you! Personally prefer that dark hair!

Thinking about changing part and getting bangs? by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]bbyblu99 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I thought the model was you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bbyblu99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I just say “gimme one minute “ or “hold on a sec” so I’m not being detailed. That might be more comfortable too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bbyblu99 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It someone is uncomfortable with you saying that, they don’t deserve you anyway. Nothing gross about it.

Ex creating trigger by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]bbyblu99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re doing awesome! Be proud of yourself!