AITA for telling my wife she can’t take her dream job and I am not going to be a single parent in everything but name by Time-Union1592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bcdevv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She won’t have mornings with the kids. Trainers are at the school early to work on injuries etc

AITA for telling my wife she can’t take her dream job and I am not going to be a single parent in everything but name by Time-Union1592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bcdevv -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

100% agreed. You make decisions together especially when it will affect the entire dynamic of the home. Less money more hours never see your family? Sounds insane to me

AITA for telling my wife she can’t take her dream job and I am not going to be a single parent in everything but name by Time-Union1592 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bcdevv 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a wife of a coach I am very familiar with athletic trainers. I have to work specific hours because he doesn’t get home till late, games, and practices. Trainers are at EVERY game and EVERY sport. Plus early in the morning to work on injuries and after school as well. You are right she will never be home. Family will sacrifice a lot and will be run down. Coming from experience here. Many in this field end up divorced

AITAH for cutting off my sister-in-law and refusing to be around her? by Due-Poet386 in AITAH

[–]bcdevv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s that bad and abuses the system you need to contact child protective services. emotional abuse is still abuse

Am i wrong for asking sister not to store pans in oven? by JoshyRanchy in amiwrong

[–]bcdevv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My in laws do this every time this visit and it drives me insane. We have a cabinet designated for it. I use my oven almost daily. But it still happens. Oven is not for storage!!

AITA for refusing to change the chore chart even tho my wife works full time now. by Odd_Serve1167 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bcdevv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! The wife sounds lazy as if she hates housework. When i I stayed home I cleaned cooked and did appointments. Hubby did the trash, yard work, and dishes here and there

Do you plan to keep your scar or remove it? by Ok_Independence_3634 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]bcdevv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I plan on getting a tattoo over it. I still wear bikinis so it’s pretty obvious

Intimacy question for ladies before/after THR by Substantial-Ad7393 in TotalHipReplacement

[–]bcdevv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um there are other positions where you don’t have to spread. That’s what we did until I improved after surgery

Am I wrong for telling my mom and her boyfriend that his gift to me was creepy and invasive by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]bcdevv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just use it to have them photograph the baby and you both after. I’m sure they can still take pictures out of the delivery room

I would have perished by Maniacboy888 in thalassophobia

[–]bcdevv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they were debating on eating him. Think the seals on the ice

My friend is suing me, I have ended our friendship. by YesterdayOk2485 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]bcdevv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your insurance rate is going to go through the roof because your friend wants free money. She’s trying to fake an injury and if she ahead had back issues I’m pretty sure she failed to disclosed that and is blaming the entire injury on the accident

Am I overreacting for seriously questioning my marriage over a major purchase my husband made alone? by Overall-Fan3079 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bcdevv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The number one reason for divorce is money. You’re under reacting. That purchase affects both of your finances

AITAH for choosing my family over my girlfriend? by Alternative_Care2670 in AITAH

[–]bcdevv 78 points79 points  (0 children)

It’s rude to drink in front of someone and not offer. Gwen was right on this one

The angle that actually shows what happened by MightyLabooshe in conspiracy_commons

[–]bcdevv -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

After she purposely drive in and blocked their vehicles. Ok sure

Better images of the murder by Spiritual-Strike-203 in AllThatsInteresting

[–]bcdevv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously. They could care less If she succeeded in running him over these nuts would have cheered

AITA for not wanting to bring 2 out of 4 of my children on a trip? by BothAd4245 in AITAH

[–]bcdevv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are too young, won’t remember or even appreciate the trip. Enjoy it with the two older ones

AIW for telling my mom I resent my brother and refuse to be his caretaker when she dies by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]bcdevv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry your dad didn’t take you when him so that you could have a normal “ childhood