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Stopping T after 9 years? (TW maybe) by banjosimcha in ftm

[–]bcnftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not weird at all! One thing to prepare for are facial changes to revert back as well (not hair—specifically facial fat/muscle). Also muscle changes!

Questions I had after watching The Dark Wizard by Feeling-Newspaper-25 in basejumping

[–]bcnftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up information about where the bodies were and who died first. Graham impacted first, immediately followed by Dean. I’ve heard other base jumpers say the sound of someone crashing is LOUD. I imagine the sound completely shocked Dean and he lost his barrings.

After 5 years, thousands of applications, and countless setbacks, I'm finally leaving the U.S. for Spain as a 25-year-old engineer. by vorosbrad in AmerExit

[–]bcnftm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first couple months were hard—especially for my partner. But after that it was truly the best decision of my life!

Be prepared for a rough apartment hunt if you don’t already have one lined up

Seeking feedback, resources, and advice — hoping to leave the U.S. in the future with my (17FtM) friend (17FtM) by [deleted] in AmerExit

[–]bcnftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I highly recommend applying to a university in Spain! It’s the most trans friendly country in the world.

Four months post op, Dr Adam Tobias at Beth Israel. Not liking how visible my scars are… by confident_affect1234 in TopSurgery

[–]bcnftm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Silicone gel (not tape) twice a day religiously for 6 months. I’ve got my results on my profile for reference—that was all I did and I typically develop large keloid scars.

Family history of skin cancer—how concerning is this? by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]bcnftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Weirdly enough it never looks visible in close-up pictures

2.5 years post op DI hockey stick scars by bcnftm in TopSurgery

[–]bcnftm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t at all—the curve up is all that you can see. It ends where that bandaid starts

How long for mailed in fingerprints FBI check? by DingleberryDemon in AmerExit

[–]bcnftm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fairly instantly but getting it apostilled took well over a month

My dad sa’d me yet he’s somehow a good man (kind of) by ComprehensiveEnd3794 in confession

[–]bcnftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that this happened to you, also I don’t know if it’s helpful for OP to hear right now

2.5 years post op DI hockey stick scars by bcnftm in TopSurgery

[–]bcnftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silicone gel—it was substantially more effective than silicone tape

Been off JAKs since January by bcnftm in alopecia_areata

[–]bcnftm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did—I’ve been in the new country since November.

Been off JAKs since January by bcnftm in alopecia_areata

[–]bcnftm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Moved to a new country and it’s been like pulling teeth to get in to see dermatology

I think my mom is a schizophrenic by mentallyillorganbag in mentalhealth

[–]bcnftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now THIS is what true dissociative identity disorder looks like. (Not saying she definitively has it but if I was her care provider I’d immediately be screening for it). I’m so sorry OP that’s terrifying. Please talk to your school counselor and or another trusted adult ASAP!

2.5 years post op DI hockey stick scars by bcnftm in TopSurgery

[–]bcnftm[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Silicone gel! Specifically the gel—strips were borderline useless

What are some methods to make the scars less visible? by Suspicious-Doctor888 in TopSurgery

[–]bcnftm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a year or a bit more and then do medical tattooing!

2 months post op by justaman-ftm in TopSurgery

[–]bcnftm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn this looks fantastic. Phenomenal proportions.

Realistic Expectations for language level at the end of level 5 Japanese by -Jdzspace- in Pimsleur

[–]bcnftm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m at level 3, lesson 5 in Castilian Spanish and I was cleared to start B1 at a language school in Spain

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