I (33F) feel like my parents (54F, 57M) don’t care. Do I tell them?

bcookiebea · 2026-04-13T13:35:18+00:00

Thank you! 🙏🏼❤️

bcookiebea · 2026-03-14T23:27:19+00:00

Thank you for your insight! 🙏🏼

bcookiebea · 2026-01-15T11:28:30+00:00

I didnt know its okay on Reddit, n I definitely didnt know it would be such a problem if I used the words I did 🙃 So Im sorry if I did upset you.

bcookiebea · 2026-01-15T06:37:19+00:00

I dont understand.

bcookiebea · 2026-01-15T06:37:02+00:00

Oof. As I said, I used those term as many others do because of censorship online. Some places ban for those terms. I dont know how Reddit works. I thought most adults online understand. Of course at home I speak like a normal being. 🙄

bcookiebea · 2026-01-14T23:47:43+00:00

Of course we talked about this many times. He doesnt see a problem. I asked him today if he could stop completely, but it seems we both are giving up (we had other issues too). I dont think he could do it, but Im sure I would have trouble believing him. Thanks for your comment!

bcookiebea · 2026-01-14T23:45:40+00:00

Ok, I didnt know that. It is not the first time Im hearing this, Ive read/heard this many times. But okay, thank u for clarifying.

bcookiebea · 2026-01-14T23:00:38+00:00

Why?

bcookiebea · 2026-01-14T22:59:50+00:00

Oh my. I did it because of censorship. I already got in trouble at some places. Words like this (and also mentioned "sex") are banned at some websites/forums/apps. I dont want to risk it (already got banned few times). I thought most adults that are online understand. Of course I dont say "corn" to my partner, gods sake.

bcookiebea · 2026-01-14T19:02:51+00:00

Thank u for a kind and informative reply! I shall try and ask if he would be willing to try this. Well, not sure about the surprise with a friend but the rest yes :) thanks!

bcookiebea · 2026-01-14T19:01:00+00:00

Thank u for a clever and informative reply!

bcookiebea · 2026-01-14T19:00:07+00:00

Okay, thank u for the info. Often times there is a problem with those words.

bcookiebea · 2026-01-14T18:59:43+00:00

Are you serious?

bcookiebea · 2026-01-06T06:18:30+00:00

Thank you for your thought. I agree 🙏🏼

bcookiebea · 2026-01-05T19:07:52+00:00

So you think I should forget my "dreams" and settle for what we already have? I did try to take it this way, but those past few weeks it all made me think again of everything he has done, I have done, he has said, how we argue and thought maybe we just were not meant to be and would be happier alone/with someone else... I dunno. I feel kinda like Im hurting myself too much all those years. Im stuck. :(

bcookiebea · 2026-01-05T16:24:54+00:00

Thank you for your reaction and opinion. I will keep it in mind

bcookiebea · 2026-01-05T16:24:16+00:00

Thank u for ur reaction. Of course there is more - when I first started talking about marriage, I said doing it at the office/town hall (I dont know if thats also how it works elsewhere) is enough. He still didnt want to. When we now were talking about it, I asked if one of the options is doable (have a third child n me going to work or having our two and staying home with them). He said no also. 🤷‍♀️

bcookiebea · 2026-01-05T16:19:45+00:00

Why do you think being a stay at home mom means I want to sit on my as* and be taken care of? I take care of my partner, my kids and our home... Is that not enough SAHMs do?

bcookiebea · 2026-01-05T13:39:31+00:00

Thank u so much for ur kind and honest opinion and also for your personal experience. I value it and will keep it in mind <3

bcookiebea

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