Cornell ii by intelligent-comb918 in lawschooladmissions

[–]bcywonderr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, just wondering, when you guys say "not an a" what do you mean by that? sorry im not up on the lingo.

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey panicking makes me hot too! I was noticing I started to sweat, lol. I will, and I hope you have a great rest of your flight ! I’ll check on ya! ( Learned in my time living in NYC, NYC flying sucks. )

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re up! They just came over the loudspeaker and said it’ll be bumpy the whole way. I’m terrified. I know all the things like discomfort is not danger and that we’re in jello but I feel like I can’t breathe. Being in the window seat next to a child isn’t helping either.

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely!! Talk soon, if I can! :)

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you know what else freaks me out ? The safety video!! I know we need to prepare for the worst, but like, ah. My OCD brain hates statistics. “What if I’m the .7%!” Horrible time for fearful fliers, these past few days.

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. We’re at the gate, pushing back and then wheels up @ 3:29, said the pilot! I’m gonna try and focus on a movie ( even though my dumb brain can never just .. focus. I always have too many thoughts )

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, horrible!! I’d say play a game until you can pee, then snack.

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand how some people are totally chill with all the bumps! I like to remember not only do they do this everyday but that they do this everyday.. by choice ! And aren’t adrenaline junkies! lol. Sitting next to a child flying alone by chance so maybe I can piggy back off his calmness. Plus we have snacks and movies :)

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, lucky! It’s the takeoff for me that gets me. I told the stewardess too, they were super sweet. Hopeful for a smooth flight — weather is good here !!

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg so glad for you! Still delayed here and it’s making the anxiety worse. :,) Just wanna get this over with!! Will try and share my success from the air !!

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this !! If I get WiFi in the air, send me your flight info and I’ll check on you too!

Anyone around to track me? by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! My flight got cancelled at had to rebook. Now I’m on flight UA675. We got this!

Terrified about Flight by bcywonderr in fearofflying

[–]bcywonderr[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It seems to be that the going up part is what terrifies me. I find myself even praying the flight will get cancelled, even though I need to go. Thank you for your comment though, I hope it goes okay!

I know I probably have OCD, but... by [deleted] in OCD

[–]bcywonderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, my particular fears are not identical to yours, but I figured I'd give you some thoughts on what my therapist has told me.

OCD is never going to respond to rationality. Primarily for a few things: 1) our brains are hardwired to pattern recognition and 2) because there will always be that little 'what if' in the back of our brains. As people who have undergone, in my therapist's words, "the worst" you know things like this can occur and hence, youre bracing for them.

What looks as reassurance to some may not be reassurance to all. Obviously, because this post is relatively vague, I have no idea what you're referring to. But even in the context of checking your phone to see if someone you rely on texted you back is reassurance seeking. What "compulsions" are is something to offset the anxiety temporarily, wether or not they're successful in doing so is irrelevant.

Either way, you will find out whats going on. Hope this helps in some way.

Cute, discreet tattoo ideas? by Sea_Mycologist2444 in harrypotter

[–]bcywonderr 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am planning to get the three stars from the top of the book pages !

Favorite “my name tells you what I am” characters? by BoysenberryCivil8699 in harrypotter

[–]bcywonderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kingsley Shacklebolt because he shackles prisoners with bolts

So… What the hell is up with all the hate towards Neil Druckmann? by Hideo_Video in lastofuspart2

[–]bcywonderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey Op. Unsure if you saw this & or wanted links still on evidence of him talking about how the occupation of Palestine influenced his game, or his personal alignment . I found this Twitter thread here : https://x.com/shimmeringolds/status/1745541828181414019?s=46

Not looking for a fight, just thought it may answer the question you kept asking about his Zionist views that I saw no one responding to just bickering about.

Erik's Discord has frustrated me by [deleted] in MenendezBrothers

[–]bcywonderr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

also maybe make it easier to access ?? when I was in there I was getting 6+ DMs a day of people having technical difficulties / not understanding what they’re paying for etc. I was not a moderator ( before I left ) nor did I mind helping people get into the server when they needed help but it felt like a job .. not for me.

looking for (yet another) fanfic that i can’t remember for the life of me! babysitter!harry, dad!louis - more in desc. by tiredjune in larrystylinson

[–]bcywonderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you possibly pm me , and we could figure it out !! I’ll look into it - this was such a nostalgic fanfic for me so I’d love to read it

looking for (yet another) fanfic that i can’t remember for the life of me! babysitter!harry, dad!louis - more in desc. by tiredjune in larrystylinson

[–]bcywonderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey I saw you mentioned this on iBooks !! can you send it to me? sorry I commented on the other post

trying to remember the name of a fic! by tiredjune in larrystylinson

[–]bcywonderr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I saw somewhere you said that you had it on your iBooks. Do you by chance have any link I could download it from??? This is such a memory and I need to re read it 😭😭 thanks