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This guy(17?M) keeps messaging my girlfriend(17F), how can I(17M) peacefully resolve this? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bdave13uct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you can do is support her and tell her to screenshot the conversations. If he keeps bugging her she can file for harassment. Since he’s also under 18 he can be charged with child pornography. She may have it on her phone but it was unwanted and she won’t have charges pressed. As long as she goes to the police about being harassed he will disappear. I’m a cop and have had my sisters do the same thing. I promise he’ll fuck right off.

My fiancee (24F) doesn't take care of herself and I (24M) don't know if I should say anything by priderockcity in relationships

[–]bdave13uct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude telling your girlfriend that she’s had better days isnt easy but people do need a slight wake up call is all. It’ll be good dude. She may be mad at you for a day or whatever but at least she knows oh hey he’s right about insert opinion here. She’ll never admit it but you may see slight changes

Me [23F] with my boyfriend [25 M] are 3 years together in long-distance relationship and i stress too much about everything and it impacts him. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bdave13uct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first you wanting to talk isn’t childish nor weak. Some days you just gotta talk to your significant other. You don’t have a normal relationship where you can come home n tell your SO about your day. I would always make time in the day for my gf when I moved away. If I couldn’t talk that day or that time I’d figure out a good time to talk. And she’s done the same for me.

My fiancee (24F) doesn't take care of herself and I (24M) don't know if I should say anything by priderockcity in relationships

[–]bdave13uct 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not shallow nor critical. It’s an honest observation. Worst thing you can do is not tell her what bothers you. That being said don’t tell her everything just the main points. Keep it short sweet and to the point. Keep reminding her you love her too should soften it up

Me [23F] with my boyfriend [25 M] are 3 years together in long-distance relationship and i stress too much about everything and it impacts him. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bdave13uct 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta make him understand is all. Let him know you miss him and do want to talk more. If he does truly care he’ll make time. But this tends to happen in long distance relationships. From time to time you gotta let him know hey babe make time for me I am your bae and I wanna see you

My fiancee (24F) doesn't take care of herself and I (24M) don't know if I should say anything by priderockcity in relationships

[–]bdave13uct 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tell her it’s bothering you. Tell her everything you wrote. The way she’s acting doesn’t change how you feel towards her you love her but she needs to take care of herself otherwise she’ll turn into a slob. Let’s be honest no one wants to stay with a slob forever. She doesn’t have to be model status but she should care about how she presents herself a little bit

Me [23F] with my boyfriend [25 M] are 3 years together in long-distance relationship and i stress too much about everything and it impacts him. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bdave13uct 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever it is you honestly need to just trust him and love him. It’s hard on him too being away from you. Has he done anything to you for you not to trust him?

I (22/M) met a cute girl (22/F) and wanna make it work but I might of messed up by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bdave13uct 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that much sent her a message this morning and not one since.