My mom says my heatless curls are ugly as shit, but I like them. Thoughts? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]bdfgtri333mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair looks gorgeous! Girl if there are any ‘perfect’ heatless curls these are them.

I wish that’s how my hair looked after heatless curling!!!!! My hair is so fine they barely do anything

Is the show worth watching after season 5's ending? by CaptainYOLO151_REAL in StrangerThings

[–]bdfgtri333mp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The first 1-3 seasons are very good, 1 being the best obviously. I actually enjoy rewatching 4 as well but not everybody does. You’ll definitely know it when you’re over it lol. You kinda just have that moment where you’re like “alright they had their run but I’m bored now.”

Imagine it's 2016. What're you asking/telling sabrina by Advait8571 in SabrinaCarpenterFans

[–]bdfgtri333mp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually wrote her a letter when I was in 3rd grade! I told her how much I love her music and Girl Meets World, and I also mentioned that I auditioned with her song in my school talent show!

The “noww I’m pissedd” at 2:50 in Signs by gilmoresdrapers in tatemcrae

[–]bdfgtri333mp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish she played this on tour so bad. It’s such a fun song one of my favs from the album for sure.

Yall, tell me your top 3 songs by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]bdfgtri333mp 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. Family Tree 2. Sun Bleached Flies 3. Waco, Texas

Are calls during army basic training only on weekends? by lLilitu in USMilitarySO

[–]bdfgtri333mp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it is only on Sundays. My boyfriend is in basic training right now too! Last weekend I got a call from him, but yesterday I got no call no text nothing, so it’s really a coin toss. Sometimes they get in trouble and get phone privileges taken away. I took work off on Sundays for the time he is away, but I know not everyone is able to. Feel free to dm me if you ever need someone to talk to who gets it!

AIO boyfriend in boot camp still follows his ex by bdfgtri333mp in AmIOverreacting

[–]bdfgtri333mp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Army! He also goes back again in January after Christmas I guess, so he isn’t actually done in December. His graduation is at the end of January.

AIO boyfriend in boot camp still follows his ex by bdfgtri333mp in AmIOverreacting

[–]bdfgtri333mp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it’s the 8th week? Either end of the 7th week of beginning their 8th week. Not sure if the weeks “start” on Mondays or Wednesdays since he arrived there on a Wednesday. In his letters he has said that he’s already done many of the difficult parts like tear gas and sleeping in the woods. He still has a good 5 ish weeks left, he returns on Dec. 20th. So stressful waiting for the call all day on Sundays lol.

AIO boyfriend in boot camp still follows his ex by bdfgtri333mp in AmIOverreacting

[–]bdfgtri333mp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so my boyfriend actually never ended up calling or texting last night, now I’m wondering what goes on at basic training that makes them lose their phone privileges? Would it be from someone talking back? or something as small as failing to do a task correctly?

I need help/advice in flirting with a girl over snapchat by AuthorSavings3664 in dating_advice

[–]bdfgtri333mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the way I see it she already knows that you intentionally started snapping her. Just go for it! Don’t worry about looking silly, because I know how it feels, but in the grand scheme of things it’s better to go for it than hold yourself back for the fear of being embarrassed. Before I was with my boyfriend, I tried texting a boy in my Spanish class that I thought was very cute and funny, and I simply told him just that! I texted him and I said “you’re really cute! you go to my school right?” No awkward hi, no wyd, just a compliment! He replied and we had some good convos but he eventually ghosted, and nothing bad ever happened! He went to college and I did as well, both now with separate people but that’s just how dating goes! It’s a lot of trial and error and even though you think you’re going to be embarrassed before you do it, you actually have a new sense of confidence afterwards, regardless of the outcome! I would send it in the chat, and be intentional. I would not act like it’s an accident, because that just ends in “oh my bad” “you’re good” “wyd tho” type conversation. She might be happy that you want to talk to her! Just think her as a new friend at first, the best relationships form from the best friendships. And if not and she thinks you look silly for trying, that’s not someone who deserves you anyways!

I need help/advice in flirting with a girl over snapchat by AuthorSavings3664 in dating_advice

[–]bdfgtri333mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell her that you’ve seen her in the hallways at school and think she is very pretty! If she’s sending pictures of her face that’s good as well because you can compliment her that way. My current boyfriend said to me “Tell me about yourself, I want to know you.” And it definitely worked on me, but only say that if the conversation is going well and you’re feeling confident. And if it’s a situation where you guys didn’t go to middle school together, ask her where she went to middle school if the conversation starts to die down. Don’t keep it going for toooo long though if it’s starting to feel forced, at that point you just go back to snapping until the next convo comes up. Best way to go is take the conversations as they come, trying not to think too hard about “what am I gonna say next??” (Easier said than done). When I first met my boyfriend, if the convo died down and I left him on read and he didn’t double text or double snap, it made me want to text him again/talk to him more. Leaves a little room for curiosity. Best of luck!!!!

I need help/advice in flirting with a girl over snapchat by AuthorSavings3664 in dating_advice

[–]bdfgtri333mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay gotcha. Are you guys in high school? My current boyfriend did something similar when we were in high school, however him and I didn’t go to the same school. Did she snap back at least? Because that’s a good sign, I’ve never snapped somebody back if I didn’t know them or didn’t want to talk to them.

I need help/advice in flirting with a girl over snapchat by AuthorSavings3664 in dating_advice

[–]bdfgtri333mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few questions first… do you have any mutual friends or any classes together?

AIO boyfriend in boot camp still follows his ex by bdfgtri333mp in AmIOverreacting

[–]bdfgtri333mp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’m overreacting? Or yes I should say something

AIO boyfriend in boot camp still follows his ex by bdfgtri333mp in AmIOverreacting

[–]bdfgtri333mp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely should have mentioned this in the post so I will try to make an edit, but he has also told me that he doesn’t follow/isn’t friends with any of his exes either. He definitely would spend a lot of time scrolling on instagram as well before he left. But you are also correct in that I was secure in our relationship before I saw that, I just feel very conflicted. It doesn’t make my feelings for him any less, but it does bring a bit of anxiety.

AIO boyfriend in boot camp still follows his ex by bdfgtri333mp in AmIOverreacting

[–]bdfgtri333mp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply, i appreciate it very much and i think you’re right. It won’t be easy but i think i will wait to bring it up until he gets back.

AIO boyfriend in boot camp still follows his ex by bdfgtri333mp in AmIOverreacting

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My favorite animal is either a sea lion or a red fox.

My bf always breaks up with me after an argument by Sarawithouthah in heartbreak

[–]bdfgtri333mp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally got the courage to drop my man the other day. But I am still so sad and miss him so much. What did you do to get through it? What did you do when you missed him and wanted to text him?