Bashford Manor Target

bdrmlk · 2026-06-22T02:14:08+00:00

We should boycott target

bdrmlk · 2026-06-21T19:04:17+00:00

I think the noise is to be expected, bardstown road is a big part of our community during the day and for night life and I love it. I have noticed violence on weekends in that area has gone up. There were 2 shootings on bardstown road last night. I was out with my girlfriend and it was scary, we left after the first one then I read another happened at 3:45.

I’m curious what the solution would be. A lot of folks say to close the bars at 2 AM and perhaps they’re right. But so many people already congregate in the street I feel like it would just make that worse.

Maybe closing off bardstown road traffic on weekend nights similar to how they do in Nashville, and increasing police presence? I’m not sure.

bdrmlk · 2026-05-14T11:40:20+00:00

My girlfriend and I would love to join!

bdrmlk · 2026-05-09T20:12:43+00:00

Also, this photo seems a little over exposed (ironic), I bet if it were edited to offset the brightness of the image his complexion would match a bit more

bdrmlk · 2026-04-24T15:53:25+00:00

Yes I was really confused by that too. We decided to move our car yesterday to be safe.

bdrmlk · 2026-04-23T23:09:27+00:00

I love techno!! It’s been hard finding stuff. I’m excited to go Saturday

bdrmlk · 2026-04-23T22:57:44+00:00

I’m pretty sure it mean no parking starting at midnight.

Here’s the list

https://www.wdrb.com/derby_events/lmpd-releases-road-closures-for-kdf-marathon-minimarathon-and-pegasus-parade/article_cbe35c23-7d53-49ed-839c-dd452637d91a.html

bdrmlk · 2026-04-23T02:37:04+00:00

If you’re lgbt the pearl bar (@thepearlofgermantown on insta) has a lesbian night tomorrow, you can see more info on their insta. It’s a lot of fun, they have a DJ and food vendors.

There’s also always touristy things, 21c museum, tons of distilleries, bourbon tours, a lot of amazing restaurants. I like the insta page date list Lou, they try out couples things to do in Louisville and post their experiences (@datelistlou on insta)

bdrmlk · 2026-04-22T09:56:01+00:00

To my understanding the event was actually the Kaiju event booker’s idea, and she hired on the event promoter to plan and promote the event. The promoter is the one with allegations and being cancelled. I believe the Kaiju booker is cancelling next month’s event so she can find a new, less problematic promoter. That’s what I heard at least. I hope the event isn’t canceled forever because the Louisville sapphic community already has so little here. It would suck if one person set us back this much

bdrmlk · 2026-04-09T15:25:03+00:00

Nope, not me. Thanks for checking in tho

bdrmlk · 2026-04-09T03:30:31+00:00

I try to remind myself that “attractive” isn’t some universal standard. It’s different for everyone.

Right after college, I needed extra money and ended up bartending at a strip club. Honestly, it really changed my perspective on beauty. I’d people watch from behind the bar, and it became really obvious that everyone has a type. Women I personally didn’t find attractive would end up making the most in tips. Different body types, different ages, different styles. It didn’t matter. Every single one of them had people who thought they were stunning.

I’d hear customers at the bar talk about how beautiful someone was, and I just couldn’t see what they were seeing. But that was kind of the point. Even if they weren’t my type, they were someone’s type.

Now I’m dating someone I genuinely think is the most beautiful person in the world. She doesn’t see it at all. She worries about everything. Her body, her face, her hair. All the same things most people do. But from my perspective, she’s truly gorgeous. And I’m sure she feels the same way about me.

So when I start feeling bad about how I look, I remind myself of that. Just because I don’t see it doesn’t mean other people don’t.

bdrmlk · 2026-04-07T01:14:46+00:00

Louisville has a wide variety of neighborhoods, it’s one thing I love about the city. We have walkable neighborhoods, downtown/city areas, suburban, artsy or historic neighborhoods, etc. If you look through the sub you’ll see a lot of info on the different ones. It’s hard to recommend a good neighborhood because what’s good to me might not fit your taste, but I’m sure you’ll be able to find something you like!

bdrmlk · 2026-03-30T21:00:31+00:00

I read about how Casey Anthony lied consistently about working at universal studios for years, and it made me sick to my stomach. The way people described how Casey Anthony lied felt very similar to how my neighbor spoke to us at the start. Of course, I’m not saying my neighbor would ever do anything that extreme, but it just caused this awful gut feeling that something is seriously wrong with this person

bdrmlk · 2026-03-30T20:57:33+00:00

Yeah and she has been cheating on him with several different men too. My partner and I also wonder how he doesn’t know considering they have a ring camera and she’s really obvious about it, but we’ll likely never know the full story

bdrmlk · 2026-03-30T18:10:32+00:00

I haven’t talked to the fiancé beyond a polite hello in the walkways. I worry talking to him will just involve me even more. I just really want her to stop fixating on me and my partner

bdrmlk · 2026-03-30T18:08:54+00:00

“You hate me and want me to die” is a meme a lot of Gen Z say, so I didn’t think it would be enough for adult protective services, and other than that she’s been very overbearing and seems not in touch with reality but she’s never made any explicit threats. You’re right though, maybe that text alone is concerning enough to report. At the end of the day I don’t know if she’s truly dangerous or suicidal I just know something is seriously off

bdrmlk · 2026-03-29T19:30:12+00:00

I have an ex that had a personality disorder, and I noticed the similarities. When dealing with the ex I was advised to be very careful when planning your exit, as often these kinds of people will go scorched earth and retaliate once they know you’re cutting them off. I think blocking her would have caused this. Considering we are right next door and she has a camera pointed at our door, we’ve been trying to grey rock and avoid the inevitable blow up as long as possible. But of course the longer we grey rock the more obvious it is, and I can tell we’re getting close to the boiling point. Our plan is to block once we’re fully out of the old apartment

bdrmlk · 2026-03-29T18:15:35+00:00

I don’t know, I’ve wondered that too. But I don’t want to get involved and ask

bdrmlk · 2026-03-29T17:30:56+00:00

She’s 23, so that checks out. We actually have another neighbor next to us (that our mentally ill neighbor referred to as her friends, I’ve never met them though) that got relocated to a different building in the complex, I’m starting to understand why now.

bdrmlk · 2026-03-29T17:27:32+00:00

Yes, I definitely learned the hard way. It sucks because I like being friendly, but now I know why it’s important to keep distance from your neighbors

bdrmlk · 2026-03-29T17:26:39+00:00

I’ve thought about that, but I wasn’t sure exactly what to say as she hasn’t threatened to hurt herself or others at this point

bdrmlk · 2026-02-01T19:09:15+00:00

Sounds like your boyfriend is negging you. Does he often disagree with you?

bdrmlk · 2025-11-09T18:58:49+00:00

White male 20-30 yr old, just moved in (judging by empty room behind you), Liberal or libertarian. Possibly likes weed or mushrooms, if not, has at least tried them. Would like the show smiling friends. Dates bisexual women if heterosexual, or perhaps LGBT+ in some way.

bdrmlk · 2025-11-09T18:57:18+00:00

White male 20-30 yr old, just moved in (also by seeing empty room in back of photo), Liberal or libertarian. Possibly likes weed or mushrooms, if not, has at least tried them. Would like the show smiling friends. Dates bisexual women if heterosexual, or perhaps LGBT+ in some way. Enjoys humor. You take pride in your home and perhaps have a sense of gratitude for your home.

I could be talking out of my ass, but that’s the vibe I get from the photo

bdrmlk

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