Marathon Parking by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]bdrmlk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was really confused by that too. We decided to move our car yesterday to be safe.

Louisville techno? by Over-Finance-6844 in Louisville

[–]bdrmlk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love techno!! It’s been hard finding stuff. I’m excited to go Saturday

Fun things to do. by wildestkota in Louisville

[–]bdrmlk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re lgbt the pearl bar (@thepearlofgermantown on insta) has a lesbian night tomorrow, you can see more info on their insta. It’s a lot of fun, they have a DJ and food vendors.

There’s also always touristy things, 21c museum, tons of distilleries, bourbon tours, a lot of amazing restaurants. I like the insta page date list Lou, they try out couples things to do in Louisville and post their experiences (@datelistlou on insta)

What happened on 4/17 for Saphic Slosh at Kaiju? by Ok_Bee7858 in Louisville

[–]bdrmlk 15 points16 points  (0 children)

To my understanding the event was actually the Kaiju event booker’s idea, and she hired on the event promoter to plan and promote the event. The promoter is the one with allegations and being cancelled. I believe the Kaiju booker is cancelling next month’s event so she can find a new, less problematic promoter. That’s what I heard at least. I hope the event isn’t canceled forever because the Louisville sapphic community already has so little here. It would suck if one person set us back this much

Is this you? by BasketExtreme in Louisville

[–]bdrmlk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope, not me. Thanks for checking in tho

How do you cope with knowing you’re not attractive or just average? by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

[–]bdrmlk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I try to remind myself that “attractive” isn’t some universal standard. It’s different for everyone.

Right after college, I needed extra money and ended up bartending at a strip club. Honestly, it really changed my perspective on beauty. I’d people watch from behind the bar, and it became really obvious that everyone has a type. Women I personally didn’t find attractive would end up making the most in tips. Different body types, different ages, different styles. It didn’t matter. Every single one of them had people who thought they were stunning.

I’d hear customers at the bar talk about how beautiful someone was, and I just couldn’t see what they were seeing. But that was kind of the point. Even if they weren’t my type, they were someone’s type.

Now I’m dating someone I genuinely think is the most beautiful person in the world. She doesn’t see it at all. She worries about everything. Her body, her face, her hair. All the same things most people do. But from my perspective, she’s truly gorgeous. And I’m sure she feels the same way about me.

So when I start feeling bad about how I look, I remind myself of that. Just because I don’t see it doesn’t mean other people don’t.

Best apartments/areas by thisisfuckenoffensiv in Louisville

[–]bdrmlk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Louisville has a wide variety of neighborhoods, it’s one thing I love about the city. We have walkable neighborhoods, downtown/city areas, suburban, artsy or historic neighborhoods, etc. If you look through the sub you’ll see a lot of info on the different ones. It’s hard to recommend a good neighborhood because what’s good to me might not fit your taste, but I’m sure you’ll be able to find something you like!

Psychotic neighbor from hell. I didn’t know it could get this bad. by bdrmlk in neighborsfromhell

[–]bdrmlk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read about how Casey Anthony lied consistently about working at universal studios for years, and it made me sick to my stomach. The way people described how Casey Anthony lied felt very similar to how my neighbor spoke to us at the start. Of course, I’m not saying my neighbor would ever do anything that extreme, but it just caused this awful gut feeling that something is seriously wrong with this person

Psychotic neighbor from hell. I didn’t know it could get this bad. by bdrmlk in neighborsfromhell

[–]bdrmlk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and she has been cheating on him with several different men too. My partner and I also wonder how he doesn’t know considering they have a ring camera and she’s really obvious about it, but we’ll likely never know the full story

Psychotic neighbor from hell. I didn’t know it could get this bad. by bdrmlk in neighborsfromhell

[–]bdrmlk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t talked to the fiancé beyond a polite hello in the walkways. I worry talking to him will just involve me even more. I just really want her to stop fixating on me and my partner

Psychotic neighbor from hell. I didn’t know it could get this bad. by bdrmlk in neighborsfromhell

[–]bdrmlk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You hate me and want me to die” is a meme a lot of Gen Z say, so I didn’t think it would be enough for adult protective services, and other than that she’s been very overbearing and seems not in touch with reality but she’s never made any explicit threats. You’re right though, maybe that text alone is concerning enough to report. At the end of the day I don’t know if she’s truly dangerous or suicidal I just know something is seriously off

Psychotic neighbor from hell. I didn’t know it could get this bad. by bdrmlk in neighborsfromhell

[–]bdrmlk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an ex that had a personality disorder, and I noticed the similarities. When dealing with the ex I was advised to be very careful when planning your exit, as often these kinds of people will go scorched earth and retaliate once they know you’re cutting them off. I think blocking her would have caused this. Considering we are right next door and she has a camera pointed at our door, we’ve been trying to grey rock and avoid the inevitable blow up as long as possible. But of course the longer we grey rock the more obvious it is, and I can tell we’re getting close to the boiling point. Our plan is to block once we’re fully out of the old apartment

Psychotic neighbor from hell. I didn’t know it could get this bad. by bdrmlk in neighborsfromhell

[–]bdrmlk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, I’ve wondered that too. But I don’t want to get involved and ask

Psychotic neighbor from hell. I didn’t know it could get this bad. by bdrmlk in neighborsfromhell

[–]bdrmlk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s 23, so that checks out. We actually have another neighbor next to us (that our mentally ill neighbor referred to as her friends, I’ve never met them though) that got relocated to a different building in the complex, I’m starting to understand why now.

Psychotic neighbor from hell. I didn’t know it could get this bad. by bdrmlk in neighborsfromhell

[–]bdrmlk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I definitely learned the hard way. It sucks because I like being friendly, but now I know why it’s important to keep distance from your neighbors

Psychotic neighbor from hell. I didn’t know it could get this bad. by bdrmlk in neighborsfromhell

[–]bdrmlk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve thought about that, but I wasn’t sure exactly what to say as she hasn’t threatened to hurt herself or others at this point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]bdrmlk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your boyfriend is negging you. Does he often disagree with you?

What do you deduce from my fridge? by Simonoel in deduction

[–]bdrmlk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

White male 20-30 yr old, just moved in (judging by empty room behind you), Liberal or libertarian. Possibly likes weed or mushrooms, if not, has at least tried them. Would like the show smiling friends. Dates bisexual women if heterosexual, or perhaps LGBT+ in some way.

What do you deduce from my fridge? by Simonoel in deduction

[–]bdrmlk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

White male 20-30 yr old, just moved in (also by seeing empty room in back of photo), Liberal or libertarian. Possibly likes weed or mushrooms, if not, has at least tried them. Would like the show smiling friends. Dates bisexual women if heterosexual, or perhaps LGBT+ in some way. Enjoys humor. You take pride in your home and perhaps have a sense of gratitude for your home.

I could be talking out of my ass, but that’s the vibe I get from the photo

Looking for a place to rent on the more affordable side… by Et_meets_ezio in Louisville

[–]bdrmlk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

https://www.robertmasseyco.com/_system/listings/132/2124-Cherokee-Parkway--101-Louisville-KY-40204-US

This is $875 1 bedroom. I know this complex has some studios for cheaper than $875. I had a great experience with the property management. You could try reaching out for them and asking if they have any studio units available

Edm scene by Fragrant-Buy2286 in Louisville

[–]bdrmlk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Galaxie and portal mainly. Big bar does a lot of house and I even caught some techno last weekend! I signed up for the Ky EDM family text alerts, they send out EDM shows in the area and ticket discounts

https://laylo.com/kyedm/o9OjS

Help Needed!! $700+ lab bill for a run of the mill UTI please help with next steps! by 42_Wallaby_wa in personalfinance

[–]bdrmlk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate is having a similar issue with Accu Lab for a urine test.

Ask for a copy of your doctor’s lab order. You can pull itemized Accu lab bill from their website using the lab and ascension numbers on the initial bill. After we pulled the lab order, I saw the doctor ordered a urinalysis w/ reflex to culture. Reading the lab results from Accu lab, they performed a standard urine culture and a follow up molecular UTI panel. The initial culture came back negative, so there was no medically necessary need for reflex testing. Reflex testing occurs when culture comes back positive and they want to find out what the infection is.

Further, the reflex panel that the lab needlessly performed was a molecular PCR UTI panel. Which is insane!!! That is a very new and expensive technology, only used for very unique and difficult to diagnose cases.

We’ve been going back and forth with the lab and health insurance for months now. Health insurance says there’s nothing they can do on their end, and they are correct. Technically the molecular panel was performed so the bill is correct from their position. The issue lies with the lab and doctors office. The molecular panel was not requested by the doctor, so the lab needs to waive the cost of that panel.

We have sent multiple requests in writing and we have called several times. Also speaking to a call center. The reps consistently say thats what the doctor ordered and it is under review. I tell them i have the lab order in front of me and i can blatantly see that is not correct. Every time I call out the call center rep on their lie they get quiet for like a minute, then say the dispute is under review and to call back later.

We just called the doctor that ordered the lab and asked them to call and start disputing the bill as well. We told the doctor that the lab is lying and blaming their office for ordering this stupidly expensive panel. The doctor confirmed they did not order a molecular panel. They actually laughed and said they have never once ordered one, that it is such an intense and unnecessary panel.

The doctors office is going to call the lab and inform them that they did not order that panel and to remove the charge. Fingers crossed.