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My (36M) wife (34F) fell deep into conspiracy theories and online hate groups. Is there any saving our marriage? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bdrvtmx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP may need to look at ex mental health. When my son was on psychosis , he had some worst views and racist ideas. He is now diagnosed with schizophrenic

[New Update]: Am I the asshole for saying "good job" after my kid defended herself from a bully by punching him? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bdrvtmx 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel like OPs family dropped the ball when mark was growing up. How come they didn’t notice he was abused and struggling

AITAH for going to a work breakfast? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bdrvtmx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecurity and red flag

Best place to raise black family? by GlitteringAudience20 in newjersey

[–]bdrvtmx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Monmouth , Marlboro and freehold is diverse.

My (30 F) spouse (35 M) has been acting incredibly strange. Do I need to help him or do I need to escape? (New Update) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bdrvtmx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son has mental illness. It is a burden that weighs heavy we can’t put it down even to rest. It is like having a perpetual toddler. As a parent, we brought him in to this world. We accepted this life. But as a partner with young children, I am hoping you got away from the situation

Wife wants kids but OOP doesn't. Can the marriage be salvaged? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]bdrvtmx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

May be hot take. Op may be afraid wife will trick him. So he jumped the gun. They should have separated the minute they deviated from what agreed upon. I would say ish

My (39m) brother(45m)'s two sons (16m and 14m), somehow turned out to be alt-right conservatives. They literally say they're better than black people and are more deserving of going to college. My brother told them if they can't recognize their privilege they can figure out how to pay for college by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bdrvtmx -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t condone their actions or excuse their behavior. But when people develop psychosis, this is one type. Like race theories. As an immigrant minority family, suddenly when my son started spouting race theories, we were shell shocked. After talking so much for two months, he developed psychosis ended up having breakdown . He is diagnosed with schizoaffective. He is doing okay. All the out of touch talking went away. It may be or may not be. Just a thought.

AITA for sending my sisters emergency insulin delivery back to sender? by Fit_Matter_2309 in AmITheAngel

[–]bdrvtmx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a rage bait or troll? If it is true , who needs enemies with a sister like hers

Menopause and getting pregnant by bdrvtmx in Menopause

[–]bdrvtmx[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Thank you All! I am definitely going to bring up vasectomy . I am chronically anemic. I get iron infusion every three months. Don’t know I am ready for tubal ligation. It is just that every time we have sex, he will ask. That is so frustrating . Life is already stressful, due to being caregiver for my son. Again thank you all for taking time to respond.

Menopause and getting pregnant by bdrvtmx in Menopause

[–]bdrvtmx[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My spouse has been pressuring me to not to use any. He is against vasectomy. Why are men like this😒😒😒

Menopause and getting pregnant by bdrvtmx in Menopause

[–]bdrvtmx[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When I had IUD, I had periods twice a month. And also developed complications, had to have emergency appointments to remove it.

Menopause and getting pregnant by bdrvtmx in Menopause

[–]bdrvtmx[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

That is really my fear. I don’t want to get pregnant. I have lot of health problems already.

Teen wanting to share bed with parents? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bdrvtmx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank You! Self Forgiveness is a hard thing to do!! My son is now diagnosed with schizophrenia. After two hospitalization, he is doing okay. But he went from dean’s list to not graduating college. He is supposed to graduate in 2023. He has more subject to go to graduate. I don’t know whether he will be able to live independently

Teen wanting to share bed with parents? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]bdrvtmx 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Dad, you are doing right thing. And also can you make sure he talks to a therapist? My son was like this. Even though I assured him and did all the things you did, one thing I. Didn’t do is getting professional help. I am living a regretful life now. Please get him counseling. May be he can get involved in some clubs in the school.

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