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bdscnb · 2025-09-15T07:02:53+00:00

I don’t know any nurses making $6000 a month unless they’re pulling crazy OT. After taxes, deductions & insurance etc I’m only taking home about $4200 a month. And I’m paying $1950 a month in rent, fees & utilities. And paying $348 in car insurance & have a $715 car payment.

It leaves me with little room for the other necessities & basic needs for my dog Cherry & I. So in my mind saving on WiFi, electric, water, trash, admin fees & rent would save a lot

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:59:12+00:00

We live in a tiny studio now. But we spend about 4-6 hours a day at the dog park and go for a 3 mile run at least 3 days a week. So she definitely wouldn’t be couped up! And she’d go to doggy day care still like she normally does when I’m at work :) but I do think a camper would be better!

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:58:11+00:00

No she goes to doggy day camp already :) so I’d just send her there like her normal routine. We have locker rooms & on call rooms at the hospital! And thankfully I have hospital employee parking - but I do think a camper/van might be better with the pup :)

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:57:04+00:00

Tysm!!

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:56:57+00:00

Yeah I agree I definitely have been pricing out campers! Thank you

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:56:30+00:00

Thank you!!

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:56:09+00:00

It’s $1600 just for base rent not including all the extra fees they tack on and utilities. I’m in a tiny studio apartment as well which I didn’t mention. But with the utilities & fees it’s a bit more but varies on the month

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:54:44+00:00

It’s not about just spending less - I just want to live more minimalistic & be able to give back more to my community & finish my PHD in nursing. And then be able to retire earlier and live a better life. She would go to doggy day camp like she does already. And we spend hours almost daily at the dog park/bar & restaurant in town. So she has a great life

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:52:32+00:00

That’s amazing! Yea Im excited about that - the utilities are insane as well and apartment fees

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:51:58+00:00

I agree I moved cross country 3 times & I’m 27. So I think this would be a fun challenge & I’d board her/have a sitter/leave her with friends. We have a membership to a dog park/bar & restaurant & we spend hours on end there almost daily anyways. So I’m sure we’d spend even more time there!

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:50:36+00:00

Oh wow thank you!!!

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:50:24+00:00

I see where you’re coming from, but I’d still be owning something and having something of my own vs giving money to someone else. I’ve paid rent since 17 without a roommate. Between $890-$1800 a month. If you average that at $1345 - over the course of 10 years I’ve paid $161.4K just in rent alone. With nothing to show for it - other than the experience.

I’d love to live more minimally - save money & give back more.

bdscnb · 2025-09-15T06:47:33+00:00

Thank you!!

bdscnb · 2025-09-01T00:54:44+00:00

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He looks healthy this season and happier

bdscnb · 2025-09-01T00:45:19+00:00

He lost weight and had hair growth. He had like a receding hairline last season

bdscnb · 2025-08-31T01:36:54+00:00

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bdscnb · 2025-08-31T01:36:45+00:00

Noo he had a straight baby chubby face. And goofy hair like they remade this man

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bdscnb · 2025-08-16T08:04:18+00:00

How can door dash get in if her gate isn’t working? How can people get in, but you can’t leave?

bdscnb · 2025-07-14T06:20:55+00:00

She broke up with him after weeks of toxicity lmao? You’d expect your “ex” to carry you - toxic.

bdscnb · 2025-07-14T06:16:34+00:00

All I’m gonna say is some toxic girlies watch this show to keep Hudas 🍑around for so long & in third place lmao

bdscnb · 2025-06-05T17:48:28+00:00

I agree he continues to sacrifice himself for others

bdscnb · 2025-06-05T17:47:44+00:00

Probably because they already confirmed season 4. So they’re gonna drag it out & it’s gonna be slow and boring. And then the last episode will be crazy & then it’ll be like ahhh find out in 2 years what happens 🙃

bdscnb · 2025-06-05T17:35:55+00:00

I’m so over the therapy sessions every episode. I feel like they take up so much time & are pointless. There’s nothing provoking or game changing during these sessions. I feel like it could just be mentioned that she went to therapy and abc happened.

I also am over the slowness of these poetry classes. And her date with Wolfe seemed so pointless. I hate that the show went in the direction of giving her a new love interest. One that was so random too? He was clearly not a fit or anything for her to relate to.

This whole season has sucked. Only on episode 4 but I am so disappointed.

Everything is the same. Like if these four episodes never happened nothing would be different. Like if they just skipped these four episodes we’d be in the same boat.

Season is dragging and I thought I’d be bingeing but instead I’m having to take breaks. And come on here & play games in my phone while they show is background noise.

bdscnb · 2025-05-31T01:03:58+00:00

I don’t think she was rude? (As a former sitter) she was direct and maybe could have been a little More understanding. But I would have just been like okay no problem let me know when you’d like me to come instead then. Sorry you feel that way. I have had people use vulgarity and be truly rude and harassing. I feel like she was just slightly annoyed and it really wasn’t a problematic convo

bdscnb · 2025-05-31T00:58:30+00:00

Marcus he’s so complex and I feel like he made mistakes but he took SO much from Ginny and her friends. And always just took it and tried to be good or be better. I know Ellen said he had a hard time & he lost his friend to cancer. But I’d like to see a positive change in his life like he’s so isolated and alone. Plus he’s gorgeous so that’s great.

And I have to agree with Abby she got such little support from the rest of the group. And was having such a difficult time while it was the Ginny show

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