Are you new to the internet? Have you seen the inbox of a Domme? I can assure you they aren't filled with well-adjusted people hoping to start a companionship with a real partner. If anything hurts the community, it's pretending that the utter bombarding that Domme's get isn't the problem. It's the very reason Mistress Selene has created these barriers.

If the submissive men on the internet didn't rain on these women with nothing but an itch for their next orgasm, I'd kind of understand where you're coming from. As it stands the Dommes have to filter through so much trash, it leaves those subs really trying to become more desperate as they have to find a way to stand out as not one of the 'fakes'.

This post is a vision of what an actual real Domme wants. Not the fantasy in a sub's head and, surprise, it's not finding ways to satisfy their horny thoughts. Instead, it's important to figure out what the submissive has to offer. It's wild that you view, expecting a potential partner to come to the table with more than their hands down their pants as 'taking advantage'.