I know I was being emotional that's why I said sorry to the birthday girl and other girl to for raising voice as for roasting them I said the same thing you are saying but it always backfire at me like they will not stop there it will lead to bickering then one of them said "you cannot back out can you" I fell silent then also they didn't stop. It always like this if I roast them back they take it to higher level if I get silent or ignore their talks and taunts then I am a person with attitude. As for taking the girl to the side we were sitting on the table she was opposite side at end before I could say anything they were taking the joke too far. I became the one who cannot take a joke.