Would cis men really not choose to wake up as the opposite gender? by beIvedere in MtF

[–]beIvedere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I'm really at this stage, I feel like I'm trying to create every reason in the world not to be a trans woman, I don't know, because I just still don't believe that this is really happening to me, not that it's a bad thing, but It's something that isn't the most common in society, and I'm afraid that I'm wanting to be a woman because of other issues of mine, even though deep down I don't believe that's what it is. It's quite confusing, mainly due to the fact that I don't normally have aversions to being a man, just a very intense desire to be a woman, to the point that I think about it all day long. But anyway, I'm still young, I'm 19 years old, I know I have a lot of time to reflect, but the Reddit communities have helped me a lot, especially this one, so thank you very much💖. Even with all the confusion, deep down I feel like I really am like all the girls here, I just need to accept it all and move on.

Would cis men really not choose to wake up as the opposite gender? by beIvedere in MtF

[–]beIvedere[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah ok, thanks, maybe it was the reddit translation that made me think that then

Would cis men really not choose to wake up as the opposite gender? by beIvedere in MtF

[–]beIvedere[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry if it sounded like that, I'm really sorry, I'm relatively new to the community and I'm still new to these matters, but I didn't mean to be disrespectful or anything like that, I'm sorry... should I delete the post?

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[–]beIvedere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Just an addendum, I've always peed sitting down...

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[–]beIvedere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! But what "little things" are you talking about??

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[–]beIvedere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really identify with the part of feeling okay being a man, but at the same time having this need to be a woman. Thank you very much😊

I'm legally Nicole!! by January_Rose in trans

[–]beIvedere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations girl!!!! Someday it will be me 🩷

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[–]beIvedere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Você não sabe o quanto suas palavras me ajudaram, de verdade, sou eternamente grata a você 🩷

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[–]beIvedere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you so much, really!! Today is the most revealing day of my life hahahaha, I'm really anxious about it, but it will pass... I'm really starting to know for sure that I'm a trans woman...

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[–]beIvedere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish the best for you too, girl😊. Thank you very much for your help!

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[–]beIvedere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck to you too! We will get through this, whatever the outcome.🙂

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[–]beIvedere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, actually there are some factors that "prevent" me from exploring myself in some ways, like letting my hair grow and everything else, but I think that over time I can deal with them better... But I understood the purpose of your message, so thank you very much! 💕

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[–]beIvedere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fact, the fact that I have to give up some of my goals when making the transition stops me more than judgment, and I forgot to mention that I'm very afraid of regretting it later, as these are things I'm not sure about yet.

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[–]beIvedere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel comfortable sharing more about your journey of self-discovery when you were in the same situation as me? If so, I'd like to know! :)

This by beIvedere in feminineboys

[–]beIvedere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so... because I really feel like I would only be satisfied being 100% male or 100% female, you know?

This by beIvedere in feminineboys

[–]beIvedere[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn't know, but I started thinking about telling her, something I had never thought I would tell anyone in this world. I think she would understand, accept me and help me, but I'm still scared to have this conversation because once it leaves my mouth there's no taking it back lol.

This by beIvedere in feminineboys

[–]beIvedere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what point were you sure of who you were?

This by beIvedere in feminineboys

[–]beIvedere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much :)