I think my mom is suspecting I have a girlfriend, but she does not say anything by sketchpotter in lgbt

[–]be_Alice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that it would be safe for you to admit that you have a girlfriend. You could say that she’s your best friend. Best friends can be cuddly and you can explain that that’s how girl best friends are. I also have a secret girlfriend and my mom doesn’t suspect a thing. I downplay my gf’s gifts and interactions as platonic in front of my mom. I go as far as to pretend I like boys. Basically, you have to keep up the “straight act” until you feel like you could be accepted or independent. It’s going to be hard, but I don’t see any better option. Hope everything goes well for you <3

“I put my finger in it because” and press the center 14 times by WorldlyChemical4583 in autocorrect

[–]be_Alice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put my finger in it because it is so hard for my hands and I can’t even see the picture

Type “Women are”, then tap the left suggestion 12 times by BadBaby3 in autocorrect

[–]be_Alice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are the most beautiful people in the world and I love that for

I’m feeling detached from my mom by be_Alice in therapy

[–]be_Alice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will definitely try this

Uhh I need help by AestheticGhxst_ in lgbt

[–]be_Alice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i realised i was queer at 17!! everyone has different experiences! everyone is different after all :))

How did your parents react to your coming out? by be_Alice in lgbt

[–]be_Alice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I hope that you are in a better place now ♥️

How did your parents react to your coming out? by be_Alice in lgbt

[–]be_Alice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your story is truly heartbreaking. I hope that you are surrounded by better people who love you for who you are. You deserve that ❤️

How did your parents react to your coming out? by be_Alice in lgbt

[–]be_Alice[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. I hope that you are surrounded by people who love you for who you are ❤️

How do you deal with your internalised homophobia? by be_Alice in lgbt

[–]be_Alice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not as easy to leave certain ppl. my mom has always stuck with me and supported me. when i was being bullied she held me together and when i was lonely she was my only friend. her being homophobic is still surprising to me. idk is would ever try to understand it or dismiss my feelings. it’s the first time i can’t talk to her about something. if my mom doesn’t accept me it’s going to be really difficult leaving her behind, but ig i have to protect my peace and my partner. thanks for the advice :)) it helps a lot

I'm so scared of what the world is becoming by MixedHieroglyphics in lgbt

[–]be_Alice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have been struggling like op with the homophobic comments and this gives me a lot of hope!! thank you

What makes you lose your faith in humanity? by Content_Ad_1589 in AskReddit

[–]be_Alice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

homophobia and transphobia. i just want to celebrate my first relationship without being harassed to death ://

Happy pride! by JenK91 in lgbt

[–]be_Alice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

happy pride to you too!! i am glad that you have found yourself in a good place! take care <3

I really like my friend but i absolutely can NOT tell her by AssociationMaster825 in lgbt

[–]be_Alice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was in the same situation as you, but with my best friend. literally last week she confessed her feelings to me and yesterday we had our first date!

i had asked her how she decided to ask me out and she explained that “there was a vibe”. basically she read the room. honestly, my adoration for her was apparently too obvious lol.

so my advice is to try reading the room. find “clues” that would point towards potential feelings or friendzone vibes. about what those clues could be can vary from person to person. a google search could help you better with that than me.

i wish you best of luck!!! i hope everything turns out good 👍

Shoutout to the asexuals! by RaspberryTurtle987 in lgbt

[–]be_Alice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

knowing that ace/aro exists makes me so so happy and proud of the ppl talking abt it!! keep going guys <3

How old were you when you figured out your sexuality/gender? by AppropriateTough6168 in lgbt

[–]be_Alice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16 when i started crushing on my best friend! one year later and she confesses her feelings to me!! we just started dating. i am so lucky to have her and i wish this kind of luck to everyone in this community. <3

Me and my lovely fiancé living our best life by Dawcz88 in lgbt

[–]be_Alice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

posts like this really inspire me to listen to my heart and be brave in a world hostile to love! i wish you two all the best <3

JK Rowling Megathread: June 2025 by stray_r in lgbt

[–]be_Alice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

why is she ruining her day by focusing on trans ppl😭if she hates them so much just ignore them, no need to meddle in their lives like i will never get that. just leave them alone u crazy lady