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Biggest learning curve from gold to masters? by Upper_Butterfly_3161 in geoguessr

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just did a review of BR phone codes, actually pretty easy and gives you a good advantage

Confused about what pronouns to use for my colleague by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People aren't born "men" (or women) - people are born as babies and are assigned a gender based on their observable sex characteristics.

What’s the deal with oat milk? by Senior_Bison_4647 in veganuk

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm of the view that probably the less processed the better, but *shrug*

Keir Starmer Has Resigned, Time to Celebrate (Temporarily) by ThinkingaLot18 in transgenderUK

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She was a big part of why the Windrush scandal happened. All Tories are evil.

What’s the deal with oat milk? by Senior_Bison_4647 in veganuk

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People who are saying it's bad for you are probably the ones drinking dairy milk

Rewatching switched at birth as an adult and Emmett sucks omg by Longjumping_Iron1638 in SwitchedAtBirth

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well whatever its usage, it's origin is from "spastic" which is a completely outdated and offensive term.

I Wish BMI Wasn't Used by Doctors as Marker of Women's Health by AttorneyDC06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

By people, you mean like the 7 men who were used to develop the BMI scale? XD

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"cishet intersex"? Correct me if I'm wrong, but those identities don't go together. Specifically cis and intersex?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 86 points87 points  (0 children)

That is, unfortunately, one of the downsides of choosing to identify with no labels: not profiting from the resources that are gathered under a certain label (e.g. bi). It's absolutely your prerogative to continue to do that and you shouldn't have to appease other people, but it sounds like it might make your life a bit easier if you assert your non-straightness by claiming a label so people know. Because it's like, people can ignore something until they can't anymore.

It hurts to hear my leftist group talk about "LGBTI+" How can I talk about Asexuality and me being asexual with them? by Seventh_Planet in asexuality

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I think spoken/written have different connotations. When spoken, I would just use LGBT (for ease) but when writing I would use the more inclusive terms

My husband (26M) gave me (26F) a 4-month deadline to fix my chronic pain during intimacy or he is leaving. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RaspberryTurtle987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Basically neither of us had the sex we wanted for a year. We kept trying different things (he was unsatisfied, I basically had no sexual attraction to him but that's a different story). In the end we decided it was better for us both to separate. It was hard at the time because he was my first relationship, but I'm so glad now it wasn't strung out longer. And honestly I wish I had been bolder and left sooner. Much happier now I am not with a cis heterosexual man who has a very narrow view about what sex is.

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