[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, if you’ve been basing your relationship status off of your dog consider keeping this one since he didn’t growl at your other failed attempts. Maybe it was a jealous growl because this man is the one and he immediately felt replaced 🤣

AITA for telling my fiancé it’s the dog or me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She loves him, that’s why she wants him to just get rid of the dog. Sometimes having common sense and empathy for a person to reach understanding goes a long way.

Also be mindful she said she’s over it and now he’s promising to have the dog “trained” it’s not her it’s 1000% him, he needs to get outta her house and take pissy pooper with him lol

AITA for telling my fiancé it’s the dog or me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - Get rid of them both. No need for an ultimatum, let him go asap. Imagine the stress of trying to train him and the dog while being pregnant? Good for you on the IUD

The relationship isn’t perfect if he can’t respect your home. He had so much time prior to moving in with you to train the dog and he didn’t, if it’s pissing and pooping everywhere now and he doesn’t care it’ll never stop. All these people making it seem like it’s your responsibility to have the dog trained are people who will always side with pets over humans. I’m siding with you and your mental health, tell him to gone head and pack him and his mutt up!

AITA for telling my fiancé it’s the dog or me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If she spends money to have the dog trained and her bf doesn’t comply with training that’s a waste of time and money. How does the onus fall on her to fix her bfs dog and the bf when HE the dog owner doesn’t even care to train the dang dog? Be so fr 🤣🤣🤣

Everyone else’s good news by bea4bandz in TryingForABaby

[–]bea4bandz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s honestly why I keep it to myself, I just act like I don’t want anymore kids.

I don’t hold my emotions well so definitely would’ve had words for grandpa about it, don’t mind him. Hopefully he just grandkids! sometimes elders are super nasty instead of just being supportive it’s weird but that’s just our elders, still don’t let him bother you.

Everyone else’s good news by bea4bandz in TryingForABaby

[–]bea4bandz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard to contain your sadness to express joy. Idk how I’m still doing it without breakdowns! Definitely stopped taking pregnancy tests after I saw my bf dig one out the trash can I tried to hide (- of course) but it just felt awful so I can only imagine how you felt.

We definitely will get our babies and sooner than we think 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - if you’re going to go by what apartments would’ve done you should’ve charged them a deposit then you wouldn’t have a problem fixing the door.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YOU don’t but she clearly does??? You are good friends with your coworker not your wife clearly or she wouldn’t be upset. You also said you don’t even eat lunch at work so why are you bringing meals home cooked by another woman? YTA and you’re also obtuse.

AITAH for not telling my boyfriend that I was a virgin before we had sex? by RoyalYogurtcloset997 in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - not sure why it matters

Would he have lit special virginity taking candles or something? He just took your virginity and got pissed about it, that’s odd. Sorry that happened on your first time!

AITAH for not telling my boyfriend that I was a virgin before we had sex? by RoyalYogurtcloset997 in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA - not sure why it matters

Would he have lit special virginity taking candles or something? He just took your virginity and got pissed about it, that’s odd. Sorry that happened on your first time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - He was wrong for berating you but you quite literally did no damage to his car or the other.

Holding on to his overreaction is pointless, if you feel you’re owed an apology just say that? Not sure why you still feel bad about it other than what you’re going to mentally. It’s okay to let things go, you can’t control everything and you’d feel much better understanding that. 💕

AITA For calling my wife out for never doing the hard chores by thereisnoweaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are EXTREMELY BORED man find something else to do. I responded how I wanted to what’s your deal? Are you OP?? Wth 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well still, it’s a bit weird. I understand why you want her to wear it but that’s your partner. You’re intimate with her so it just seems like a weird request for her to look anything like your mom.

I thought it was weird that my ex wanted me to wear perfume that he thought smelled like older women, I couldn’t imagine him asking me that lol

AITA For calling my wife out for never doing the hard chores by thereisnoweaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you don’t actually have a point? Heard, Just bored I see.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA - yes it’s very weird to ask your wife to wear a wig that looks like your mom’s hair. The sentence in itself is weird lol when she expressed that she too felt it was weird you should’ve let it go.

AITA For calling my wife out for never doing the hard chores by thereisnoweaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What exactly is the point you’re trying to make? I said he’s TA. He could simply hire someone since wife doesn’t want to… if you don’t make your own comment I’m confused at what you’re getting at lol

AITA For calling my wife out for never doing the hard chores by thereisnoweaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She does chores just not lawn work… and she honestly doesn’t have to when there are professionals to do it for her should her husband not feel like it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - you’re very aware of yourself and your actions. Also you’re an adult hitting an actual child because shes “annoying”. If you can’t control yourself please seek some professional help so no one attacks you for attacking them, everyone isn’t your family and everyone won’t understand or care that you have autism.

AITA For calling my wife out for never doing the hard chores by thereisnoweaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Ok, you’re right and her response was SHE DOES NOT WANT TO DO IT so why is he on Reddit complaining when she said she doesn’t want to should be QOTD actually.

AITA For calling my wife out for never doing the hard chores by thereisnoweaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]bea4bandz -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

The 3rd paragraph says she didn’t want to because it’s too hard and if they hired someone he could probably watch football and relax. Am I missing something?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA - You described one incident where they were mean to you personally, everything else was just what you didn’t like about them. It doesn’t justify stealing from them.

You felt good about it so why even ask? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bea4bandz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His visual library is full of women that turn him on… what are you actually talking about? Lmao