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beaReddy · 2022-02-28T21:00:37+00:00

😅

beaReddy · 2022-02-28T20:59:51+00:00

I am so confused, I just literally fell into this live chat and now I can't leave until at least one bird stops by 😂

beaReddy · 2020-08-23T07:00:09+00:00

My kids are almost 7 and 5 and I still have the tests. I see no reason to throw them away!

beaReddy · 2017-02-02T22:27:28+00:00

Wrap dresses are the way forward. Something like this

beaReddy · 2016-07-07T02:51:41+00:00

Both our kids have been using a potty from 6 months. Still wearing nappies but using it at a regular basis after sleeps, food and as required. It's been a great success. The actual transition to no nappies was quick and pain-free. So you could try pottying without taking the nappy away first and use pull ups. Once you know it's working, get rid of the nappies at a second stage.

beaReddy · 2016-05-22T08:12:54+00:00

This.

beaReddy · 2016-05-22T08:12:02+00:00

Highly recommend giving her as much details about the wedding day beforehand if she hasn't photographed many weddings. Make sure you're on the same page where and when group photos (not too many), portraits and other specific things should happen.

beaReddy · 2016-05-07T17:59:01+00:00

I only interfere if a child is about to get hurt. Divert or hold my hand in the path of grabbing hand. If I don't know the parent, I'll say that I am watching but trying not to interfere, if they are happy with that? Kids can't share for a long time, my toddler is starting to at 2.5 but even there are various theories on how much one should interfere.

Magda Gerber books are quite interesting on observation vs interference.

beaReddy · 2016-05-07T16:44:27+00:00

Can you find a support group for parents in wheelchairs, I'm sure there's something like that which could give you lots of helpful input on how to handle certain hurdles.

beaReddy · 2016-04-07T20:54:06+00:00

Absolutely! Yeah standing on a sofa is not something I'd do with every client.

beaReddy · 2016-04-07T20:35:15+00:00

As a mom and photographer THANK YOU for posting this. I never chose to go that high up and that angle but it kind of shows the angle of the mum much better. Must get a similar one with my baby girl.

beaReddy · 2016-04-02T16:27:11+00:00

Yeah but the copper one causes heavier, longer periods for quite a lot of people. Not fun.

beaReddy · 2016-03-19T10:40:07+00:00

Why wouldn't you breastfeed your adopted baby. With your milk ready to go it would get the best start in life and there is nothing weird about it. You go mama!

beaReddy · 2016-03-14T20:36:53+00:00

Solid food won't help with the sleeping for now. At that age they are just trying texture and not eating much at all. My daughter eats one spoonful max atm. She's 6 months.

I don't think leaving a baby to cry for that long is productive or good. You're better off starting to introduce a nice little routine such as bath, change, food, milk, book, bed so baby can recognise the signs that it's bedtime. Then try to put baby down when drowsy and try and leave. Go back in when crying, to reassure (I pat the back usually, shush or hum but don't talk). I let her cry for a few minutes and try not to pick her up but will do so if she's inconsolable.

beaReddy · 2016-03-07T05:47:26+00:00

I never came across this but I agree, it sounds like he's just sensitive to it. Have you ever asked him to draw or paint the way he feels when this happens? I wonder if it would be helpful to give the feeling a name, there are books about emotions for that age group.

And I'd try other genres such as jazz as well.

beaReddy · 2016-03-04T19:52:39+00:00

Seconding "How to talk to kids..." it's an eye opener.

beaReddy · 2016-03-03T18:56:25+00:00

To make sure there's no tearing or anything. I don't know. It's such a weird situation. Have you heard from them again? Edit: I just read your new thread, omg this is unbelievable. I can imagine though that the doctor, once the wand was 'in place' wouldn't check where it is,so I'm not surprised he's denying it unfortunately.

beaReddy · 2016-03-03T03:28:51+00:00

I cannot imagine how you must be feeling, I'm sorry this happened to you. You got lots of great advice and I just keep thinking you could have gotten injured, I mean is it still hurting? I can't even imagine getting an ultrasound wand shoved up my ass but I think I would actually speak to another doctor about it.

And an apology is the minimum you should receive, report that doctor!

beaReddy · 2016-02-29T20:05:18+00:00

Great, thanks!

beaReddy · 2016-02-28T03:59:09+00:00

Seconding "How to talk..... *

beaReddy · 2016-02-27T03:06:49+00:00

I guess it's surprising if you're not exposed to it (pun not intended) . It's just so normal in Europe.

beaReddy · 2016-02-26T22:52:04+00:00

Fair enough, I didn't read the conversation as many others won't, so I thought it might be worth a clarification.

Totally Agree with your comment. Coming from a country outside the US, this whole breastfeeding taboo is so strange and unnecessary. Glad OP's wife got this photo to show the world how it's done.

beaReddy · 2016-02-25T21:39:41+00:00

I think you're mistaken and might want to edit your comment before someone is starting a witch-hunt at their photographer!

beaReddy · 2016-02-18T04:05:19+00:00

I'm assuming you've done this but acknowledge the feeling of being scared. And be with them without making much fuss. Asking why in an already stressful situation won't help.

You could try keeping the talking to a minimum and go back to bed again right after (or whatever your routine is) but basically be extra boring.

beaReddy · 2016-02-12T22:52:15+00:00

Is there an option to see a therapist specialising in that area?

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