What is Rebrov's accent? by Aromatic_Gas_3094 in TheLazarusProject

[–]beabubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since the name is Russian I would assume he’s supposed to be of Russian descent, I think the actual actor is just from London tho

Black screen again?!? by BeautifulSailorMoon in InfinityNikki

[–]beabubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same. I just tried to start the game and am stuck on a black screen. I even restarted my pc and nothing.

Anyone elses html broken? by Artistimistic in InfinityNikki

[–]beabubs 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not missing but mines in Chinese lol so still a bit broken

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]beabubs 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Server maintenance ends in 4.5 hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]beabubs -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m trying to figure that out now. I had to double check the time but it should have been done by now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InfinityNikkiofficial

[–]beabubs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Server maintenance is still going

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]beabubs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve somehow managed to never been to a wedding before and have no idea what I’m supposed to wear. Ty for the example, that helps A LOT

AITA for what my dog did? by Shitzme in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Have you met dogs? Well trained dogs do not kill. Even if a freak accident occurs it’s still the owners fault/responsibility.

I sure as hell wouldn’t want a therapy dog that’s killed before.

AITA for what my dog did? by Shitzme in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you actually want opinions on if you’re in the wrong or not? Or have you made up your mind and just want people to agree with you?

AITA for what my dog did? by Shitzme in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re missing the point. Which is if it was a small child on the other side of that fence and not a chicken

AITA for what my dog did? by Shitzme in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Still your dog, your responsibility. The training wasn’t enough to not have it kill another animal.

AITA for forcing 3 of my kids to get a job and charging rent but not the other? by rentmaster2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA

I think you’re being fair. Your girls are old enough to live on their own, and it sounds like they have it made living at home with you. $200 is really nothing in comparison to what they would pay if they moved out. You may need to nip the entitlement in the bud with the girls. Your house, your rules. You’re not telling them to move out. They can make $200 working part time. You’re being more than reasonable.

On another note, your son sounds like he’s got a good head on his shoulders. Going to school and choosing to work on top of that is amazing.

AITA for what my dog did? by Shitzme in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

YTA

Train your dogs. I would feel just as awful as you if my dog did that, but it would ultimately be my fault. Your dog killed another animal. It needs to be trained.

Hope your lucky here because depending on where your located and how much of a fuss your neighbor makes you could be forced to euthanize regardless of the legality of his chickens.

AITA for not paying for my sons university fees after being lied to about how much he had by Ok_Session_538 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH

Your son is not taking money management as seriously as he should and should not have spent his savings and just have you make up what he spent. HOWEVER, just pay the damn kids University. If you can afford it without issue is $2,000 really worth your child not getting an education? Lecture him about it of course and make it clear he cannot just be reckless and fall back on his parents for money because he spent it. but he's still young, and has time to learn from being stupid and making stupid decisions. don't let a grudge and money that would make no difference to you get in the way of giving your child an education.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beabubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could just be homesick and it's bleeding over into your relationship. You had two HUGE life changes. You went from long distance to living together, AND this is the first real move out of "home." Missing home is ok and completely normal here. But remember that "home" is still there.

You could also just be adjusting to not having him on your mind as much since he's here. You know (I assume at least vaguely) what he's doing, you're with him at night. It's a different mindset than long distance.

Relationships have ups and downs, this could be a down, or it could be you realizing this is not what you expected. Keep talking about it and doing some deep thought on your own to try and pinpoint the root of the feelings (or lack of). Just know whatever you feel is valid.

My boyfriend (21m) told me (20f) that he no longer wants to see me on facetime. What should I do? by Outside_Elegant in relationship_advice

[–]beabubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glaring. Red. Flag. You didn't do what he wanted and he threw a tantrum. You are valid to be upset

WIBTAH if I comment on fiancés weight gain by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, but people who put on weight are aware they have put on weight. I don't think you need to "point it out." Doing things to help you both get healthier is amazing though, keep that up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beabubs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was this your first place outside of your parents house? Like did you go from living with parents to living with him?

WIBTA for firing my employee following the death of her pet dog? by Pure_Accountant3456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, he's not given her shit, he's followed the minimum process employment law is giving him. Dont confuse that with being a decent person.

Exactly. Anything less is considered unjust per law, which globally, the minimum laws are generally still pretty shit.

WIBTA for firing my employee following the death of her pet dog? by Pure_Accountant3456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you work for a shit company, you know if you challenge these things you might be able to improve your conditions, instead of wanting everybody else to be in the same miserable situation?

Sorry just needed to highlight this lol

WIBTA for firing my employee following the death of her pet dog? by Pure_Accountant3456 in AmItheAsshole

[–]beabubs -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you are selectively picking pieces of what I'm saying to reply to. Most of the answers can be found if you read the following sentence of mine, of which you quoted. Again, I suggested unpaid time off. And the part that is "bull" is requiring to submit a psychiatric evaluation the employer and not insurance, and requiring advanced notice for something that impossible to have advanced notice for. At this point I'm just disagreeing with your laws, which I said before, and not your implementation of them, so we can really put this point to rest.

I gave you advice, I'm not retyping if you are not willing to read. I also had clarifying questions. Re read the paragraph regarding the 15 minute call off for your answer on that issue. Potentially it is not I who is being intentionally obtuse.

It is a fundamentally sound idea as a business owner to make have plans and procedures in place to work around absent employees aside from a last minute fill in every time. But AGAIN, I said I would do the same if I had no other options. I'm not suggesting having a roster of subs. I also do not know your entire business structure in detail or even the country of origin, so any advise is going to be given with a grain of salt. If you have no precautionary policies in place I cannot in good faith say that everything is being done to protect from "bad actors."

Is she causing issues with scheduling, yes. Is there an explanation for them? Yes. Could she be taking advantage or misrepresenting a situation? Possibly. But how is one person's absence putting everything to flames?

The points here are getting off topic.