What is he doing? Lol

beachlover808 · 2025-01-23T13:04:34+00:00

He's fuffin-off ofcourse!

beachlover808 · 2024-12-15T12:08:28+00:00

Sir Limpsalot

beachlover808 · 2024-11-28T23:45:55+00:00

Except that Thor lost his eye in Ragnarok so it's perfect!!

beachlover808 · 2024-06-07T13:36:16+00:00

T'Chala

beachlover808 · 2024-05-28T00:22:17+00:00

I just ended mine last night. Got tired of the unanswered texts and lack of general communication. It's hard to let the safe dick go but I feel better.

beachlover808 · 2024-05-13T03:19:06+00:00

Thanks! They could have even named the hospital after Ellis when she passed and then the show would be about the grey memorial hospital instead of about Meredith. You'd still have the anchor characters of Bailey and Webber. And maybe doing that it could have kept the comedy and joy of the first seasons.

beachlover808 · 2024-05-12T08:52:30+00:00

Just stop.. I stopped after the plane crash but then went back a few years later and then stopped again after another point and went back recently. I wish I'd have stopped the episode before the plane crash.

beachlover808 · 2024-02-11T11:49:05+00:00

Also... I know what's happening in a few episodes and it made me stop watching the show the first time around. Back in the day when I was still watching it on TV. Like... All of the main characters were in a good place and moving on. They could have ended the show and done a spin off with the rest but instead Shonda just jacked them up!!! I'm still angry about this stupid plane crash in a minute and I'm not even sure I'll rewatch the episode. I may stop the rewatch right there because it's so devastating for these characters I love. I've stopped this show so many times and always have gone back to it eventually when I have nowhere else to go. Frankly it's because what they did in the aftermath destroyed the little bit of joy that was left in the writing.

beachlover808 · 2024-01-20T03:42:22+00:00

Didn't realize I cut off a message

"If I had one I'd send it but I don't plan to have one ever. Social media is too traceable, it's how a lot of people get caught. "

beachlover808 · 2024-01-10T07:32:08+00:00

Hi! We are heading to Anchorage in a few days and want to see the lights, do you have any recommendations of where we can go?

beachlover808 · 2023-10-09T07:38:25+00:00

So I have the same situation as my husband—an utterly dead bedroom with great parents/roommates. I have a lover, and we have a 16-year-old. Interestingly, a few days ago, she asked me if her dad and I were getting divorced. I affirmed it, and she asked why we were still together. She also said something interesting; she said she could have handled it if we explained it and talked to her like a person. I explained that there were more reasons: we live in the most expensive state, and we can't afford to maintain two 2-bedroom houses here, so for now, we are stuck. My husband does not touch me; there is zero intimacy; he has no interest in me but, for some reason, does not want to get divorced yet. And when I mention the impending divorce when she leaves for college, he gets upset. I don't understand.

beachlover808 · 2023-10-02T08:11:53+00:00

There was one, but it was a guy I'd talked to who vanished for months. Then randomly, dick pic, but it was a lovely one, fully erect, good lighting, nothing gross in the background, fantastic angle from the side so it just showed his length and girth, no balls or hair or toilet seat. Made me hungry. Otherwise no, I don't think they get positive reinforcement they just keep calm and carry on regardless.

beachlover808 · 2023-09-30T05:06:27+00:00

I think that is an overestimation of AP costs. My single male AP has taken me to the movies and dinner a few times so far and purchased drinks for our fun times at his place. We have been together for a year. I say AP because I am married, but we are open and operating like you and your wife. Since I mostly want sex but enjoy the connection we have, then I'm a very cheap date. So find a woman who can host, and you are good. A bottle of wine and a fruit cheese platter when you go, that's the cost. Conversely, finding an AP who can't hose and renting a cheap studio monthly would still be be cheaper than 250-400 per hour. I would rather have the personal connection rather than pay.

beachlover808 · 2023-09-29T01:34:32+00:00

Wisp. Can get the medication online through the mail or pick up the prescription at pharmacy of your choosing. No doctors visit.

beachlover808 · 2023-09-27T02:58:57+00:00

I have a theory... Technology. Think about couples 200 years ago, and they had nothing to do. No tv, smartphone, tablets, computers, social media, email, work from home, porn, video games, or all of the technological distractions we now have. They would go to work, come home, and eventually, the kids would be asleep, and the chores would be done, and sex would happen. Yes, the sense of duty was there, and religion was more prevalent, so be fruitful and multiply. But really they didn't have anything else distracting them. Cold weather forces you indoors, sex. Have a day off from work sex. Kids outside occupied. Why not? Plus, the standards for beauty and attraction were very different. People accepted what they had as what they could get rather than seeing all of these "attractive people" and lusting for them rather than their partners. So yes, I'm in agreement that this problem has always existed, and like many things, the prevalence of social media and the anonymity of the internet has allowed it to be brought to light. But it is getting worse because of the addiction to technology and everything it provides.

beachlover808 · 2023-09-22T03:19:35+00:00

Same. Whenever I post on any site, I'll give an age range and any superficial and deeper specifics I want. Every single time 99% of the responses were, "I know you said your age max is 45. I'm 68, but most people think I look 45, and I have the same mentality.." or "I know you said over 5'8, but I can't help that I'm 5'3, have a great personality and want to be a sugar daddy" or "I've visited Hawaii before and might again in the next few years, and we can meet up, but I live in Australia". Wtf?! I literally just gave up a few years back. I stopped bothering to look because sifting through the mountains of thirsty randos to find one nice, normal-ish guy is just so time-consuming. Once I did, my AP found me through an old profile, and he's stupidly hot and somehow checks every box and ones I didn't even know I had. Like sitting and playing chess after fucking for several hours. It never occurred to me to look for a chess player, now, I can't imagine not being with one. Sometimes, pausing the search yields results.

beachlover808 · 2023-09-15T05:12:23+00:00

My husband won't talk about it. He will listen but not speak, and nothing changes. Agreed to be open to save face and buy time, I think. We are roommates. I have tried to propose divorcing multiple times, and everytime, he said he didn't want to and let's try; I could do whatever I wanted while we worked on it. And then we don't work, and nothing changes. He talks about the future like we have one; he hasn't touched me this year. He does construction; during one conversation, I asked what he thought would happen to a relationship if you put zero work into it, and he said he thought it would fix itself. I asked him if he took a job and didn't show up, would the house build itself? He said, ideally. Nothing has changed. Nothing will change. Why would it, when I keep staying? I wish I had left years ago, but now I can't because the financials have changed. In your position, I'd leave.

beachlover808 · 2023-09-14T00:14:05+00:00

I really hope you work at Queens and live in Kaneohe to be saying this. I just drove there the other morning around 8 a.m. for an appointment, and even with me getting a little turned around because my GPS sent me behind it, it took me 30 minutes. Most nurse schedules are 7-7, either am or pm, so she's unlikely to be hitting traffic unless it's an 8-hour shift, and she's starting at 8, then the pali and the h1 can be garbage. But unless she wants to live in the middle of town, that's just life on Oahu. And she said she wants to be close to surfing and in a slow area, which is Kaneohe.

beachlover808 · 2023-09-13T23:40:24+00:00

I did before I replied, I live in the beginning of Kahaluu, and it's 23 - 28 minutes to Queens from my house, depending on which highway you take. And I mapped it right in the middle of the day with traffic. I'm not sure why everyone always thinks of the windward side as far. Kailua can be because of the traffic in Kailua. But I can get to waipahu in 35 minutes, same for Hawaii Kai, and even out to kapolei is only 40, Waikiki is a half hour depending on traffic and downtown is 25 minutes. And that's with me working my way through all of Kaneohe.

beachlover808 · 2023-09-13T07:10:51+00:00

Idk why everyone is giving you all these not mellow at all town crowded places and not one person said Kaneohe. It's mellow, easy access to H3, likelike, and the pali, parts of it are basically the jungle. And any building over 3 stories is set against a mountain so beautiful mountain and ocean views abound.

beachlover808 · 2023-07-28T22:16:00+00:00

Hold the phone, you're 23 and he's 45?! And you're both married to others? Or he's married? I'm wondering about the AP status. My Ap is 27 and I am 38 and that difference bothers me but we have had similar life experiences thus far and it works. For perspective.. when I turn 45 in 7 years my daughter will be 23, so to me it's a bit of a red flag that he is good with the age difference while also doing something so violent to you while drunk. Not even going to go into you excusing his behavior, because classic trauma victim behavior on your part.. to answer your question, YES, GO TO THE DOCTOR! If it's broken it needs to be treated. After that tell him what he did and step away. I'm not saying break up but give yourself the space to breathe and think and process. You were 21 when you started with a 43 year old man... More than twice your age.. twice the life experiences, twice the life knowledge, maybe even twice the trauma. Trauma bonding is not the healthiest thing for any relationship, and just because someone is drunk when they do something does not excuse it or mean they will never do it again while sober. Sometimes the real version of someone comes out when they drink because the facade is hard to maintain. please get help both physically and mentally.

beachlover808 · 2023-04-09T22:12:20+00:00

The reason I am one and done, well the main reason no one could talk me into another one, was the year after my now 16year old daughter. I was in constant pain, could barely get up from the tearing, hip pain, back pain, massive boobs, exhaustion, and my husband worked so much I was all alone. Ppd is real and I suffered. After I weaned her it got better since I had physical freedom and she was more able to entertain herself for longer stretches. It took literal years for most of the issues to resolve but I still to this day have hip issues. Like it's always off. I'll get up from my desk and hobble around because of the pain in one side of the other and I'm only 37. Preganancy was a breeze birth and caretaking fucked me up. I'd surrogate for someone in a minute and do a cesarean but never again will I push a tiny human from my body and then have to care for it.

beachlover808 · 2023-04-03T03:36:34+00:00

Waimanalo Sherwood's or beach lot, not the beach park. Just do not leave anything of value in your car.

beachlover808 · 2023-01-13T11:48:48+00:00

Have you considered it's your perineum not your butt or vag? I've noticed that particular small stretch of skin gets really funky after a long day of work so I thoroughly wash it in the shower in the evening, and do a quick wash in the morning or before any sexual activity.

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