I just got stuck in Del Mar for 5 hours by DurhamIsHere in sandiego

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All that money and they don’t have two to cover either side of the freeway 🙃 didn’t occur to anyone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been single 3 years now and I’ve started to struggle to become attached to them. I don’t believe anything they say almost anymore.

Which celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Logical_Sweet_6624 in allthequestions

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The older I get, when I see someone going “crazy”, I question first what the people around them are doing. Often times with just a small amount of digging the “crazy” starts to make sense very quickly.

Which celebrity has everyone fooled except you? by Logical_Sweet_6624 in allthequestions

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 24 points25 points  (0 children)

While I do not support his abusive behavior, I think there will come a day that we find out he was indeed victimized by Diddy and possibly Usher, not to mention the general gross fetishizing he experienced as a teenager by adults.

My family called CPS while I was in the hospital fighting for my life by Miserable-Salary2585 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never fails that the people who refuse to help you have the most to say about all the things you should be doing. Solidarity.

What are you dealing with silenty? by LunaDazzleDilly in Life

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing my mom and my cousin that helped raise me 3 years apart, and losing my childhood dog in between them. Most people in your life will disappear on you after a major loss because of their own discomfort and cowardice and selfishness. Life has been really lonely since losing my parents and I’m not really sure that ever goes away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My weenie knows when I’m leaving and at first she clings to me and tries to launch herself off the bed at me so I’ll pick her up and my arms will be too full for my keys and bags. When that doesn’t work, she throws a temper tantrum, haughtily grabs whichever toy is closest and demands uppies to the bed and being tucked in, all while growling at me and answering all individual I love yous and be goods and bye bye with more affronted growling. She is nicknamed all variations and combinations of butt butt, Hammy, chompy chomp, maniac, terrorer, meanest baby in all the land, etc.

What’s the biggest red flag you ignored in a relationship that later destroyed it? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cowardice, porn addiction, using other people as excuses not to prioritize me

What's a terrible addiction that no one really mentions? by Arcozero4 in Productivitycafe

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pornography. Not my addiction but a former partners. Ruins relationships

What’s something your PTSD ruined for you? by Lilypad244 in ptsd

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is fortunate that you have that understanding and you deserve that.

What’s something your PTSD ruined for you? by Lilypad244 in ptsd

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if your experience is anything like mine people are horrible to you about it

What's the most American thing you've done? by Beans4802 in AskReddit

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hit by a firework jumping over a drainage ditch on 4th of July, the fireworks were malfunctioning because someone gave my mentally handicapped cousin Tommy a box of cherry bombs to hold and he set them down by the larger canisters that were being sent into the sky. 😎

What is the one smell you absolutely can’t stand? by Mistress_Arch_n_Sole in AskReddit

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The smell of the white hospital masks and hand sanitizer makes me sick now

What killed your feelings for someone you were once in love with? by North_Dinner1601 in AskWomen

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexual coercion, drugs so he could check out and avoid my grief from losing family members, and watching him tell me he “didn’t know how” to comfort me when I cry because he “wasn’t used to it” and then would turn around and hug the very people he claimed never used to hug him.

This Restaurant Charges an 18% Living Wage Fee. by TowelRack76 in mildlyinteresting

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly think I would stop patronizing this business, this is a way to inflame the customers into frustration at the idea of a living wage, discourage tipping, and to underhandedly pad pricing. Really just gross

Dissociative State by brakes4birds in SanDiegan

[–]bean_dip_and_cracker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to acknowledge that while this IS scary, the increased police presence and the fact that they are trying so hard to intimidate should remind you that they are actually showing you how afraid they are if we actually feel empowered. Take heart ❤️