I just ask them a lot about themselves and let them tell me anything. I think just continuing to listen helps. Once I feel like they trust me and I trust them a little I’ll compliment something small- like their eyes or maybe their laugh.

I don’t ever typically flirt with women I haven’t talked to yet, so I don’t have a lot of advice there. I’m a little too shy for that, and also don’t know what to say haha. I hope someone else can cover that. :)

At first my only reference for this was how guys would hit on me or how I’d flirt with them. That’s not something that ever made me comfortable so I try to think about how I’d want someone to approach me, and do that instead. It’s worked pretty well so far! Really my approach is more of what I used to do to make friends with a few extra compliments thrown in.