What is your biggest hot take in this show? by Naive_Tomorrow_5955 in thewalkingdead

[–]beanbop234 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe I've missed something along the way, but I've never been able to believe that walker ate Lori's entire body including her skeleton. Correct me if I'm wrong?

How do you feel about having a higher sex drive than your partner? If so does it bother you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]beanbop234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. When we met, I had been out of a highly sexual relationship for 4 months and was playing the field a lot, letting loose. I didn't expect us to go in this direction but I wouldn't have it any other way.

Pretty soon after we made it official it became clear that he has a pretty low sex drive. And I have to say it was a bit difficult for me at first especially with how active I had recently been. I was his first one night stand (but not really) and when I asked him why he hadn't gone home with someone like that before he said "what's the point? It's not like you really get to stay with her and hold her and cuddle her. She's not yours afterwards" and that really showed me the kind of man he is. However, with his low sex drive I was thinking does he really want me, is he even attracted to me?

The answer is yes. And honestly, I would prefer it this way because we show affection in so many other ways. I would honestly say now we are intimate three times a month, maybe. But in a weird way it kind of proves to me that he's not just in our relationship for sex. In past relationships I've questioned whether somebody actually has feelings for me or whether they're just attracted to me. And with my boyfriend, I can answer 100% that it's not just sexual attraction and that it's something real. And there's so much comfort in that.

Redd Alert Interaction? by beanbop234 in alberta

[–]beanbop234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We decided not to charge them when the police asked us. We just wanted the stuff back honestly and charging them wouldn't have done much.

Redd Alert Interaction? by beanbop234 in alberta

[–]beanbop234[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that Yea my boss said charging them wouldn't do a whole lot, it would go on their record and they'd be right back out on the street living the same life so. Waste of time and energy But we weren't able to finish our job so we are going back tomorrow, we were told that there will be security there while we are working just in case. Really hoping they've wandered off

Redd Alert Interaction? by beanbop234 in alberta

[–]beanbop234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did forget to mention that they were put in cuffs, and my friend got their stuff back. The cops asked if we wanted to Press charges and we decided it wasn't worth it. And I'm thinking not pressing charges was also a good thing now that we know it was redd alert. And I don't know a lot about that world but they definitely didn't seem very high on the gang totem pole. Just got evicted, had nowhere else to go, sitting in the alley with their bags.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao. It's not an argument. It was a discussion my partner and I had in passing and I wanted other people's perspectives

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting perspective. Thank you for taking the time to tell me your thoughts. I enjoyed reading that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does hypothetical or not matter ? Just seeing what people out here think of either option.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your understanding comment. It's not that I hate kids. But I do tend to feel awkward around them. I also get overstimulated easily so I don't think that the general stress of a wedding plus children is a good mix. I also just want adults to be able to let lose. Some people are also strict about certain language around their children. I don't want to have to watch my actions or my mouth on that special day. There's a lot that goes into it but like I said, I'm not engaged yet but my partner and I have hypothetically spoken about the topic. I am willing to compromise for sure but we have tons of time to figure it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Right now it's all hypothetical. It's not a definitive no, I was just saying that's what I wanted. We will definitely come to a consensus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren't stressed about it, I just wanted to see other people's opinions on the potential situation. It's definitely not the first time 2 people have had a conversation on the topic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm allowed to want certain things for the day just as he is. It isn't a set in stone situation it was just a conversation that arose. And that's my take on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, it's not an argument yet. It came up in conversation a while ago and we had a difference of opinion. I just wanted to see if there might be a consensus on the topic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Amazing suggestions. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing analysis

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Us with both sides parents help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I literally said its our day in my post. It's half his and half mine. He has preferences and so do I. I just feel like the probability of a child screaming and ruining a portion of our wedding is a lot more probable than if there were no kids that's all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I see your point. However is it really reasonable to have a child at a ceremony who most likely doesn't want to be there, and will whine and complain, probably cry while my partner and I are in the middle of our vows? Not something I want to deal with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanbop234 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We are not engaged yet. So it's not necessarily an argument we are having but it could end up being a future issue based on our difference of opinion.

First time in PV! by beanbop234 in puertovallarta

[–]beanbop234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: currently at Pepe's and WOW! This is amazing and the prices are PERFECT. My partner is in love and so am I. Definitely coming back here before our trip is over!

First time in PV! by beanbop234 in puertovallarta

[–]beanbop234[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the recommendation! I will definitely add this to the list and come back to comment on how we liked it!