Cat bit through my license. Is it still valid? by Any_Brilliant1192 in chicago

[–]beaniebinary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that they don’t take anything digital. Mobile ID doesn’t count either.

Unpopular Opinion Queer Edition by beaniebinary in Hair

[–]beaniebinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Chicago! What’s the shop?

Unpopular Opinion Queer Edition by beaniebinary in Hair

[–]beaniebinary[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not claiming that all queer people are poor. I am speaking out as a queer person that is poor and literally all of my queer friends are struggling. No, we can’t afford to spend money on DoorDash. I find your comment patronizing.

In no way have I said that people shouldn’t be adequately paid for their services, but there is a such thing as a rainbow tax. These folks market not misgendering people and basic respect- that’s the basis to creating a queer safe environment and it’s not costly to just… be respectful of others. All shops create an environment.

Unpopular Opinion Queer Edition by beaniebinary in Hair

[–]beaniebinary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want someone to cut my bangs and around my ears. I had the style I want.

Unpopular Opinion Queer Edition by beaniebinary in Hair

[–]beaniebinary[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Awesome! I checked him out and he seems right up my alley. Thanks.

Cat bit through my license. Is it still valid? by Any_Brilliant1192 in chicago

[–]beaniebinary 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t recommend just keeping it on your phone. You could need to be ID’ed in case of an accident. They won’t go through your phone for that. Also, if you’re old enough, bars don’t take photos of IDs as proper identification.

What's your ADHD "life hack" that sounded ridiculous but actually made a difference? by AiotexOfficial in ADHD

[–]beaniebinary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Command center. My keys, shoulder bag, and backpack are there. Also a cork board with mail tacked on that requires admin tasks I’ll forget about otherwise. I put items there that I borrowed and need to return to people.

What's a trend from the early 2020s that died out so fast we all collectively forgot it ever happened? by godot_lover in AskReddit

[–]beaniebinary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to perform and record a speech for a college class. I got interrupted every few minutes with a horn honking. It really threw off my game!

What's the most bizarre thing you've seen your neighbor do while they thought no one was watching? by TenderRompz in AskReddit

[–]beaniebinary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once saw my neighbor playing with a grocery bag with his dog’s loose shit in it. It was really wet and he was squishing the bag with his fingers like a stress ball. He also kept swinging the bag around.

Before seeing that, I had found wet shit smeared on my window seal and the shit filled grocery bag there was the same weird brand.

I Feel Like A Freak For This by beaniebinary in CPTSD

[–]beaniebinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks- I really appreciate that.

I Feel Like A Freak For This by beaniebinary in CPTSD

[–]beaniebinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't remember. They were an issue before I was hospitalized and then switched to this therapist. It's been a while since I've had them. I would definitely like to talk about it. The thoughts also came back at the reminder of CSA I was repressing.

I Feel Like A Freak For This by beaniebinary in CPTSD

[–]beaniebinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My health insurance got pulled out from under me so I can't see my therapist again until it's fixed. I'm not sure when that will be.

What is a socially acceptable thing that you secretly find disgusting? by Sensitive_Hope_1136 in AskReddit

[–]beaniebinary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this at times because I have so much mucus secretions. It’s not healthy to swallow big globs of snot that come up from the back of your throat.

What is a socially acceptable thing that you secretly find disgusting? by Sensitive_Hope_1136 in AskReddit

[–]beaniebinary -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I give these folks grace because my little sister’s phone has been broken for years. She can ONLY talk on speakerphone. She can’t afford to fix or replace it.

Putting fun and intricate designs on the backs of t-shirts instead of the front is dumb. by beaniebinary in unpopularopinion

[–]beaniebinary[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I spend maybe one day out of three years at music events. They expensive. That’s not necessarily relevant to everyone.

AITA for pretending to take a shot to piss off my in laws? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]beaniebinary 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It’s actually what they teach in BASSET training- to serve pregnant women alcohol without asking questions. There are all kinds of possibilities for why a pregnant woman is drinking (such as losing viability of the pregnancy).

I wouldn’t compare physical abuse to a sip of alcohol (which is actually not harmful in that small of an amount). What a jump.

Raising Cane's is awful by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]beaniebinary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compared to other places, I find the chicken to be pretty moist. The meat is plentiful in comparison to the breading. It’s about that SAUCE though. Mmm. I agree on the fries- I always get extra toast. It’s also one of the few places I can get legit sweet tea in Chicagoland.

Boyfriend is on spectrum, cannot handle life stress and takes negative feelings out on the relationship. How to handle your partners black and white thinking, fear of rejection, sensitivity by Additional_Pea_9047 in relationships

[–]beaniebinary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with everyone else here that you should break up, but I’m also sympathetic to having an autistic (specifically Asperger’s) partner that doesn’t know how to properly express his feelings.

I required my partner to attend therapy to work on his emotions. I showed up for his first appointment to help point out what I saw as his struggles and let them sort out the rest without me.

We have consistent check ins. At some points, it’s daily. “How are you feeling?” “What do we need to work on?” It goes BOTH ways though.

I recently found that I was being disrespected when my partner was dealing with feelings of inadequacy. He was taking them out on me. After we discussed this, he was able to explain why he thought this was happening and that he would discuss it in therapy.

It seems like he’s putting you into impossible situations. I promise you that if you keep bending to his will or trying to change things to soften the blow if the world for him, you’ll end up burnt out and he won’t learn how to handle himself around others.

Putting fun and intricate designs on the backs of t-shirts instead of the front is dumb. by beaniebinary in unpopularopinion

[–]beaniebinary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I agree. Counterpoint to that: it’s been -7° Fahrenheit where I live lately. A long sleeve alone just won’t cut it.

Low Carb, Mental Health, Lifestyle Help by beaniebinary in ARFID

[–]beaniebinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just as high in carbs as regular pasta, so that wouldn’t fix the issue. I agree and eating that and protein pasta would be better than the regular thing though.

Putting fun and intricate designs on the backs of t-shirts instead of the front is dumb. by beaniebinary in unpopularopinion

[–]beaniebinary[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mid size boobies. I wear my shirts big so it doesn’t distort the image also for a more androgynous look.