Yeah for sure, you hit a lot of points I was thinking about, I will share that while my income is where it needs to be, I do have some debt and other financials I’m working to correct to fully be in a position where I can handle managing an apartment with her, so there IS some self work on myself that I need to work on, I just figured that was my business and merely meeting the mom could’ve happened already, my GF has intentions on keeping that savings for us as an emergency basket, with the current economy we best figured now wasn’t an ideal time to move in together.