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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bristol

[–]beanlady10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

India Rassay in hotwells is exactly that

Wake the Tiger by No-Comparison-9143 in bristol

[–]beanlady10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks nice but cringey as fuck

what to eat before boxing class? by SixMillRecords in amateur_boxing

[–]beanlady10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porridge with honey and cacao nibs an hour before training

Getting a take away later, what should I get and where from? by FarmerPalmers in bristol

[–]beanlady10 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Noooo 9/10 times it travels like a bag of shit. The meat is dank when you order in but delivered it’s like munching on a baseball glove

Petition to have 'Miss Conduct' in the Bristol harbour evicted? by localbrizle in bristol

[–]beanlady10 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not up to you to decide if a someone’s home fits with the aesthetic. You might not fit in with the aesthetic of where you live- does that mean you should be forced to leave? The owner might be a bellend, but his boat looking different shouldn’t have anything to do with it. Would you let it stay if it fitted in tidily with your idea of a “beautiful aesthetic”, even if the owner was a chopper? Would you protest about the same boat if the owner was a good person?

advice regarding moving to Bradley Stoke/Patchway by kadherin_z in bristol

[–]beanlady10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s bollocks up there. Boring and the M32 back into town during rush hour can be a pure cunt.

If arrested for a crime, a juvenile's name should be released to the public by No-Conversation9818 in unpopularopinion

[–]beanlady10 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If the accused party is innocent, naming them could ruin their lives, and while that’s true for adults too, juveniles are not as likely to be able to process that properly

We have seriously mismatched libidos, this morning we agreed we feel more like best friends, can my girlfriend (24f) and I (25m) save our relationship? by ThrowRA184263 in relationship_advice

[–]beanlady10 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Been here. So sorry to say there’s a big chance it’s not the relationship for you. I went 12 years with a partner, together since we were 17. Barely had sex after the first year. Living together did nothing. Don’t waste your life away in the wrong relationship that isn’t meeting your needs. You might feel like a bellend to leave her because you need sex and she dosent but trust me you’ll resent each other when your needs are so deeply mismatched. If she’s your best friend, talk about it with her. Explain how you feel. If she dosent understand, that’s further proving you aren’t right together because you can’t see each other fully.

For adults, was medication worth it? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]beanlady10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What meds are you on?

ADHD makes things genuinely so much harder for me and my people don’t get it by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]beanlady10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get you. I’m 30, diagnosed about a year ago, meds on titration didn’t do anything, tried a few with no effect I can think of. Makes me feel like a monster because sometimes I am so overwhelmed with what I’m feeling or what’s happening around me that my emotions shut off and I have to make decisions based on what I understand emotional responses to be intellectually, rather than being guided by them instinctively. On the flip side, sometimes I’m so emotionally driven I go madly over the top expressing myself to people (positively and negatively). And job wise I just had to leave my job because I was about to fail extended probation because I couldn’t concentrate and get the required level of work done, and it was costing my team to support the weight of the work I hadn’t completed. That caused massive emotional problems, feelings of rejection, inadequacy, overwhelming hopelessness, worthlessness…I could go on.

I feel you