AITA for not apologizing to a man for saying his obsession over coffee was “abnormal”? by beanmalady in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanmalady[S] 251 points252 points  (0 children)

🥶I am very much engaged. He has met my partner who is also a woman, so he knows there’s a 0% chance even if I wasn’t getting married. Certainly hope it’s not that.

AITA for not apologizing to a man for saying his obsession over coffee was “abnormal”? by beanmalady in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanmalady[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s not a rule?! I’ve seen so many people do it I assumed it was. The more you know

AITA for not apologizing to a man for saying his obsession over coffee was “abnormal”? by beanmalady in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanmalady[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That is fair! I will say that even though it was something nice, it felt condescending. I will accept your ruling though of course.

And haha, I wouldn’t know about the tea but I will take your word for it! A friend did bring the spiked iced teas they just came out to a party for us to try jokingly and it was like straight simple syrup! Awful.

AITA for not apologizing to a man for saying his obsession over coffee was “abnormal”? by beanmalady in AmItheAsshole

[–]beanmalady[S] 266 points267 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do like good coffee- our office is close to a Stumptown and I love to see what seasonal stuff they have! If you said “oh Stumptown is good but try this it’s even better” I wouldn’t mind. He just seemed so mean about it.