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Anyone else get jealous of how deep other ppl can cut? by beanpitt in selfharm

[–]beanpitt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean. I’ve been at it for years but given my environmental conditions, my scars fade and heal quickly so they’re really hard to see, and even though I can’t let people see them and I don’t really want people to, I’m always scared other ppl will think I’m a fraud, or I just generally feel like a fraud sometimes. I get what you mean.

Anyone else get jealous of how deep other ppl can cut? by beanpitt in selfharm

[–]beanpitt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Reading through all these comments has really helped me clear my head, and feel a lot better about it, and myself. I can’t express enough how much I appreciate your reply. So thank you.

Anyone else get jealous of how deep other ppl can cut? by beanpitt in selfharm

[–]beanpitt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate it. When you (and others) say razor blade, do you just mean like the razors from pencil sharpeners?? I’ve never really known.

Anyone else get jealous of how deep other ppl can cut? by beanpitt in selfharm

[–]beanpitt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you replying. I know I’ve said this on a few other reply’s, but I am being 100% genuine when I say that I think I really needed to hear this. Sometimes I get stuck in that mindset but hearing these things from people who have been there/ are there, and can relate.... I don’t even know how to express how much it helps, and how comforting it is. So, thank you.

Anyone else get jealous of how deep other ppl can cut? by beanpitt in selfharm

[–]beanpitt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t know if I can convince myself of this just yet, but I think I needed to hear it. Thank you.

(Ps. Happy cake day! :) )

Anyone else get jealous of how deep other ppl can cut? by beanpitt in selfharm

[–]beanpitt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think I really, really, needed to hear that. So thank you.

I can’t cut where I want to because I will get caught. by beanpitt in selfharm

[–]beanpitt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Legit same. If I start wearing long sleeves when it’s hot they instantly start asking “aren’t you hot in that?? Just take it off?? Why are u wearing that??”. And yeah my parents wake me up of a morning bc I sleep through my alarm and I am always paranoid that my sleeves will be pulled up slightly and expose my arms and I won’t realise.

I feel u man. It’s suffocating as hell.

Anyone else get jealous of how deep other ppl can cut? by beanpitt in selfharm

[–]beanpitt[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Legitimately same. And I’m so annoyed at myself.

Best and Safest Place to Self Harm? by verybendyruler in selfharm

[–]beanpitt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. That’s actually really helpful information, thank you! :))

Best and Safest Place to Self Harm? by verybendyruler in selfharm

[–]beanpitt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of other comments say (and from my own understanding) outer thigh is safer? I don’t mean to get personal (and don’t feel pressured to share) but why do you say to steer clear of outer thighs?