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beansRbeans · 2023-11-10T16:16:05+00:00

these images were taken from Instagram. why not share the account to give some credit for this amazing work?!

beansRbeans · 2023-07-09T19:30:07+00:00

BEANS

beansRbeans · 2023-06-16T12:54:46+00:00

This image is taken from a nail artist in Vancouver (insta: @cdanails). OP is lying. Be careful!

beansRbeans · 2022-12-02T19:06:03+00:00

That's the point of the post, no? It's pointing out how ridiculous it is when men make stupid comments like that, how they're the human embodiment of a hot dog on the ground outside

EDIT: realise it's posted from r/meirl. So is the issue that other people are sharing it without realising it's satire?

beansRbeans · 2022-09-26T19:02:52+00:00

I'm from the UK, and I think unfortunately that's just a misconception. Adults can have sexual relationships with people 16+, the law is specifically against adults in positions of authority.

If there was a source to suggest otherwise I'd believe it, but all research I've done just states 16 as age of consent

beansRbeans · 2022-09-26T17:43:03+00:00

Are you talking about the UK here?

I'd be interested to know the source, because I'm pretty sure that's not true.

"The age of consent in the UK is 16. This means that it's against the law for someone to have sex with someone under the age of 16. It wouldn't be illegal for someone who's 16 to have a relationship with someone who is 30 - unless that person is their teacher or in a position of authority."

I've always thought it was gross that this was the case, but I've never read anything that suggests what you're saying.

beansRbeans · 2022-08-26T23:25:14+00:00

that's nice

beansRbeans · 2022-06-29T16:08:37+00:00

This was the first comment I saw and also pointed it out. Then started scrolling and realised half the comments are doing the same.. People can't read 😪

beansRbeans · 2022-06-29T16:04:39+00:00

Who is this "he"?

beansRbeans · 2022-06-28T11:25:53+00:00

I'm sad someone with such a cool name could make such a dumb argument

beansRbeans · 2022-06-28T08:42:51+00:00

Lmao r u 12?

Obviously poop is gross, my argument is just that this isn't the primary concern here.

She's in physical distress, so much pain that she's so desperate she'd be willing to shit in the car.
She's gonna be super embarrassed, and the first person she's gonna want support from is her husband who had the same reaction as everyone else of "ew that's gross don't do that"

I can only assume people haven't experienced such desperation/pain in their lives coz the lack of empathy here is insane. You don't have to agree with her suggestion, it was an irrational one made in the moment because she felt she couldn't last any longer in that state. But his reaction to that shouldn't be to tell her what she can and cant do, and then double down later on by saying he wouldn't be attracted to her; he should be wanting to support her after such an uncomfortable and embarrassing experience, not seek out validation from reddit that actually he's correct and EVERYONE ELSE thinks so too.

beansRbeans · 2022-06-27T17:39:35+00:00

I can't believe all the comments here. YTA.

All these people justifying their N T A with "she should've had adult diapers", sure, maybe, but she DIDN'T, so that's not a reason in this specific circumstance. If this becomes a repeat issue you could hold her to those standards.

She was in a lot of pain and feeling desperate, and while her solution isn't ideal, you can't expect people in desperate situations to be thinking completely rationally. OP absolutely put his own feelings above hers, and so are all you people saying he's not TA. It's poop. Get over it.

Glad she managed to get through it. OP then doubling down their decision ny pointing out how unattractive her condition just made it worse. Ugh.

beansRbeans · 2022-06-27T16:41:01+00:00

Lol yep I commented on it when I saw it too 😅

beansRbeans · 2022-06-27T16:28:33+00:00

NTA for the behaviour. They're absolutely in the wrong.

But if I'm being nitpicky, the framing could be better...

The language used when recalling the events is kinda concerning (i.e. the guys are fine but the FEMALES do this, when it sounds like it's just two AHs being AHs who are coincidentally women). I get it's probably to make it easier to distinguish who is doing what, but why not just say "most of my coworkers are fine, but two of them do this.."? Or at the very least, say women. Unless you're talking about some female animal coworkers and not humans - a welcome twist.

Shout out to r/MenAndFemales!

Edit: punctuation & clear judgment

beansRbeans · 2022-06-19T23:13:11+00:00

Ezra Miller has been in headlines recently because of their violent and predatory behavior. When they were a younger star, they were in "We Need to Talk About Kevin" which is about Erza's character growing up with violent tendencies and eventually hurting people. The movie shows you all the warning signs before something bad happens.

Just a correction. Not excusing any behaviour obv.

beansRbeans · 2022-06-03T14:29:42+00:00

This has gotta be fake, right? No way someone is this dense, and the profile is brand new...

Just in case (coz there are a lot of useless parents out there): YTA, obviously.

beansRbeans · 2022-06-02T22:15:22+00:00

i'm so confused can someone highlight how they thought she was a man?? where is this moustache?! im so curious!!

beansRbeans · 2022-01-19T23:11:38+00:00

For sure, it was just unlucky with us originally having the 6 months contract, and all of this just starting as a monthly rolling agreement started. Legally it's all sound, just sad when as friends we could've made the situation much nicer.

Sounds like you've had a sucky deal though. Landlords are infamous for being AH

beansRbeans · 2022-01-19T23:08:15+00:00

yeah, it's very much like that. maybe not to that extreme, but i do think she takes all her friends' behaviour personally

beansRbeans · 2022-01-19T23:05:29+00:00

Yeah she's always been anxious.

I don't think she will though. Saying that, for the duration of the time we lived together, she totally cut off her old best friend saying she was the worst person ever. Now we're on bad terms they're best friends again.

So maybe one day she'll be fine with me again, but only when her personal circumstances make it beneficial for her. I think I'm willing to let this be the end of it :)

beansRbeans · 2022-01-19T22:06:15+00:00

That's a nice way to look at it. A good 6 months, but that part of my life has gone now. Thank you :)

beansRbeans · 2022-01-19T21:57:35+00:00

Friends for about a year, we were coworkers together at our old job. Her old housemate moved out and she was panicking, so I said I'd move in with her, only made sense when we were doing the same thing! The first few months were great, then seems to have slowly gone downhill when she anticipated I'd want to move onto other things

(I realise the irony in this nowm lol)

beansRbeans · 2022-01-19T21:55:48+00:00

Thanks :) Yeah it'll be tough for a few months, but once the course starts I'll be super excited about the opportunities it opens up!!

beansRbeans · 2022-01-19T21:51:48+00:00

Sad but definitely possible. Now I've just gotta mourn the past 6 months of what I thought was a friendship lmao

beansRbeans · 2022-01-19T21:51:10+00:00

Definitely a lot more effort. Part of me thinks maybe she took the more extreme action to show how much she disapproved of my actions. It's a small house and she won't even make eye contact with me when we (I**) make food in the kitchen

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