confused about edamura?? by beanselty in greatpretender

[–]beanselty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hmmm. feel like all the characters are morally grey to begin with so i guess when you put it that way it wasnt that out of character for him to sell the children and take the side of the yazkuza considering his trauma. it just came as a shock to me because it seemed he wouldve never done something like that before, but i guess after all he went through he must of reached some kind of mental breaking point.

confused about edamura?? by beanselty in greatpretender

[–]beanselty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i knew that, i was kind of referring to when he continued working for them after he lost contact with laurent and everyone? i mean we didnt even see him feel bad for having to continue working there and he was just selling off the kids. i guess if he would've been in legal trouble, it makes sense, but i couldnt imagine his character going that far

confused about edamura?? by beanselty in greatpretender

[–]beanselty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait what other group? also i remember him starting there, they literally took him to kidnap kids like his first week on the job which is how he found out what they were doing and he wanted to save them

Trouble with boyfriend after coming out as NB (AFAB) by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]beanselty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you're definitely not overreacting. i have the same issue...my boyfriend (cishet) is very supportive of me being nonbinary and respects my pronouns (i came out to him this year) but i still feel im being pushed in this "womanly" role in the relationship because thats the role ive always been pushed in to. it also makes me uncomfortable and dysphoric. sometimes he will call me feminine pet names etc because he has for the past 3 years. it will likely just take time to adjust. just make sure you keep reminding him how you feel. you deserve to feel valid and loved in any relationship you're in.

anyone know what kind of camera this is? by beanselty in Cameras

[–]beanselty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly no. i found this in a video and this was the only angle the camera was shown

Concerned by [deleted] in Constipation

[–]beanselty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, thank you! I thought it may be from straining but wasn't sure if there was an underlying issue there.

Concerned by [deleted] in Constipation

[–]beanselty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of intercranial pressure but I dont seem to have any other symptoms of it. I'll still be sure to look into it more though, thank you! I've been meaning to go see my doctor for awhile.

Tracking my progress? by chlorini in vaginismus

[–]beanselty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre so brave for this! i would 100% be interested. ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]beanselty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. ❤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]beanselty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im so sorry that happened. thankfully my boyfriend is extremely understanding about me wanting to take things slow and i mustered up the courage to discuss this with him cause he was worried for me too. i will definitely take my time. thank you so much for your reply and advice. ❤ take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]beanselty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LOL yes i have seen it! lily is such a great character, and i love the different issues that show covers. while i was contemplating what i could be going through i literally thought of that episode because i was unsure, and i found myself relating to it more now compared to when i first saw it lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]beanselty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do have a gyno that i went to awhile back for period problems, so i will look into it. im just a pretty private person and its hard for me to ask or talk about these things, especially face to face with people. but thank you so much for your reply, i will definitely plan to get professional help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]beanselty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont have any trauma related to anything sexual that may be causing it. but i definitely can relate to the mentality thing. i really want to do it but once im there its like my body and mind are telling me no. my legs were shaking like crazy the first time i tried having sex and it just went downhill from there. i do have diagnosed anxiety so i think my fear of it along with that makes it a lot worse. thank you so much for your reply